Author Ms. Joolie Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 I am concluding that it is a matter of maturity. The path of maturity I must go.
Author Ms. Joolie Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 Celibacy is a fat selfish Lazy whore, who stuffs her face with chocolate, and sleeps/watches sopa operas all day long ... but not that path.
Sam Spade Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 (edited) I'll be looking forward for your next thread at the age of 35 how there are no good guys out there:laugh:.. Realistically speaking, you've got no more than 3-5 years to get your romantic priorities straight (and actually pursue them rather than coast), or else it will probably be "settling" time eventuallly Edited November 19, 2009 by Sam Spade
Author Ms. Joolie Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 I'll be looking forward for your next thread at the age of 35 how there are no good guys out there:laugh:.. Realistically speaking, you've got no more than 3-5 years to get your romantic priorities straight (and actually pursue them rather than coast), or else it will probably be "settling" time eventuallly The dilemma with settling down is that when guy's want to settle down, that generally means starting a family, doesn't it? I don't really want kids, I have other interests and just don't see myself being a mother. I would love to, but I have to choose my interests or having kids it seems. Ah... we can't have everything. Compromises will be made. Looks like I have three choices: 1) Either I give up my idea of marriage, and just do the live in GF thing. 2) Or I marry some guy who wants kids. 3) Or I stay single. Happy and content with being just that. All of those have there strong and weak points. Guess I'll just have to choose one.
Sam Spade Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 The dilemma with settling down is that when guy's want to settle down, that generally means starting a family, doesn't it? I don't really want kids, I have other interests and just don't see myself being a mother. I would love to, but I have to choose my interests or having kids it seems. Ah... we can't have everything. Compromises will be made. Looks like I have three choices: 1) Either I give up my idea of marriage, and just do the live in GF thing. 2) Or I marry some guy who wants kids. 3) Or I stay single. Happy and content with being just that. All of those have there strong and weak points. Guess I'll just have to choose one. If you're sure that you don't want a family, then there is nothing to worry about - just do whatever you like and have fun.m Most guys are on the fence about having kidds, so a woman that wants no kids is welcome. If you do change your mind, make sure it's not too late. That's all.
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