novack Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 hey dudes, dumped at beg of school 2 year first love... today found out she is in love with a guy.... ****ing sucks She hasn't called me since oct 4th and i have not tried her since the 9th... nc!!! she called me today and left this weird msg... it was like hey how are you, asked me about my exchange process for this upcoming january...she then mentioned to me how it was okay not to call her back... THAT LAST PART KILLS ME... trying to get the upper hand.... ****.. anywho i'm gonig to have to see her on friday with her new public display of affection bf.. which is going to suck but i guess when i speak to her i'll just explain how busy i was
jerseyboy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 Bro Dont go there if you are just going to make a chump of yourself DONT BE THAT GUY!! If you are not going there with someone, which it sounds as if you arent then at minimum. 1) If you ro she says hello, just smile wide and no more than a hey and a wave. THATS IT Move on and start talking to someone else. 2)Dont be that pity guy at the party telling everyone others how much it sucks, it hurts, its awful "really Im fine" is the only acceptable response. While smiling. 3)If she initiates a convo, dont ignore her. Give her a couple of secs, but no more than thirty before you have to go do something else. Be nice, not mnea or hostile, and definitely not I just cant handle talking to you right now. Youre bored, and something more fun is happening somewhere else at the party. 4)Throw a few compliments around. Nothing too obvious. And not "Im trying to pick you up" kind of compliments. If some of her good looking female friends are there, smile and say something like, "good, someone thought to bring some eye candy to this party, and smile wide at the girl" Thats it, dont hit on her friends, or be seen to be hitting on her friends. Thats way too obvious. But compliment her like that with just the smile, and I promise you they will be analyzing it for the next week:) If she asks about the call, it was " yeah sorry I did get it, was busy at the time, meant to call afterwards, but lost track with all else going on. If she starts with the hey Im still your friend, how are you doing, Im sorry if this is rough on you ****, all you need to say is its cool that youre happy, it was going to happen sometime for both of us (meaning dating others), so its for the best. If she starts with the we should still be friends nonsense, just say hell yeah, well always be friends, then go to the bathroom or something, and when you get back ,start talking to other people. Ands remember hes not screwing your gf, but you did use to diddle his. Btw none of this is to get her back. Its to maintaqin your self respect with friends, and ruin her drama ego boost night out at your expense. You will absolutely make her miserable if you grow some balls with this one
jerseyboy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 One more thing Stop talking to her friends about her, or any mutual friends. Especially if you like any of them:) Girls dont want to hear you talking about other girls. And if it comes up again, it was for the best, and something happened that made you realize sometimes these things happen for the best. When they ask you what, just kind of laugh or smile, and be like nah, dont want to talk about it, have enough drama right now, dont need any more. If they keep asking tell them maybe youll talk about it with them down the road, too soon now.If they ask if its another girl you met, just be like mind your business in a playful way Thats it
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