V.Vixen Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 Sigh. I just want a boyfriend. It never works out to be that. Tell me I will find that without having to settle? Ok, thanks.. I either get a weirdo or I get friend zoned, it's always one or the other.. I'm not bitter, I swear. Trying to keep a positive outlook and just be happy with being single, but all of my friends are getting married and I am the only one who can't even find a decent boyfriend. Sorry, it's just one of those days.
JohnP82 Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 Do you just want a boyfriend because your friends are getting married? How long have you been single?
gtrguy Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 You will find one.. Just stop trying so hard and it will happen. Where in Jersey are you from? You should come into the city to hangout. Lots of successful, good looking, single guys here.. Sigh. I just want a boyfriend. It never works out to be that. Tell me I will find that without having to settle? Ok, thanks.. I either get a weirdo or I get friend zoned, it's always one or the other.. I'm not bitter, I swear. Trying to keep a positive outlook and just be happy with being single, but all of my friends are getting married and I am the only one who can't even find a decent boyfriend. Sorry, it's just one of those days.
Author V.Vixen Posted November 18, 2009 Author Posted November 18, 2009 No, I am ready for a real relationship. I have been casually dating for 3 years. "Single" for 3 1/2. I just really don't want to settle.
neowulf Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 Sigh. I just want a boyfriend. It never works out to be that. Tell me I will find that without having to settle? Ok, thanks.. I either get a weirdo or I get friend zoned, it's always one or the other.. I'm not bitter, I swear. Trying to keep a positive outlook and just be happy with being single, but all of my friends are getting married and I am the only one who can't even find a decent boyfriend. Sorry, it's just one of those days. If that's you in your Avi, you certainly don't have any drama's in the looks department As for settling, I don't think it's fair on either party. The world is a big place. I'm sure somewhere out there is a person who matches what you're looking for. A friend of mine once said "My husband isn't perfect, but he's perfect for me". Stay strong
JohnP82 Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 Hmm, where are you looking/finding people? Also are you waiting on guys to ask you out or are you taking the reins so to speak?
Author V.Vixen Posted November 18, 2009 Author Posted November 18, 2009 I use all avenues,..online, grocery store, bar, the gym. I have no issue getting a date, and usually the breakups are on my part. Like you said, I am not looking for perfection, but perfect for me. I guess I am just a tough match.
neowulf Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 I use all avenues,..online, grocery store, bar, the gym. I have no issue getting a date, and usually the breakups are on my part. Like you said, I am not looking for perfection, but perfect for me. I guess I am just a tough match. Perhaps shaking things up a bit. New hobbies. Shop at different stores, hang out in different bars. Move through different circles for a bit and see what you find. Also, have you thought about the kind of partner you'd like and what that kind of person might be found doing? Like the outdoorsy type? Join a hiking club. Perfer the arty type? Try hanging out in galleries or becoming more involved in the local music scene. You get the picture. Good luck!
JohnP82 Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 I know it sucks to hear, but all I can say is be patient.
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