samboy01 Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 I was walking in the mall and I see this really good looking asian at a sunglasses kiosk... When I say good looking, I mean I couldn't even clone better even if I try to. lol (Btw I'm good looking too, so I do think I have a chance if he's indeed gay). Anyways I stop and start looking at the sunglasses, so he eventually approaches me and saids "hi, are you looking for a gift?". So of course I complicate things by answering "Yes, it's for my brother". Anyway we talk about how my brother looks like, and I tried like 5 sunglasses or something. He was first showing me glasses in the 400$ range, so I kind of mentionned that. Anyways there were not many sunglasses in the 100$ range so that kind of limited my time there, so he showed me the choices. lol Then as I wanted to change the subject and kind of chat (I said "man it must be long to be here alone"), he saids "yeah it's so long" and immediately a couple appears with a question and he starts helping them. I stayed there for a few minutes looking at glasses, but it was obvious that this was taking too long and he was very busy, and I felt at that point that I had looked at all the choices he gave me and I didn't want to stay there waiting because it would be weird. So I got ready to leave and I said "thank you". He actually extended his hand and we did a handshake. Ok, here's what I said right as I was leaving. lol I said "btw i want to tell you that you are really good looking". I said it low because the other customers weren't far, he didn't hear it at first, so I repeated it... then he said "thank you". The thing is, I said it after the handshake as I was leaving and as he was turning to get back to the other customers... so it was really not the right timing, nothing followed I just disappeared and he went back to the other customers... I kind of wish that I hadn't said it because I could have showed up another time and talked more, or I wish that I had said it at a better timing to allow a reaction/follow up. But anyways what happened already happened so I can't change that. Now I know that the chances that he's gay are slim and that we are basically complete strangers... My question is, is it too late to go back at a later date and say something like "hey remember me"? lol Would it be ackward or seem obsessive, or is it cool? I mean obviously he probably figured out that I wasn't there for the glasses and that i just talked to him because he's cute, but I don't want to show up again and he feels like "this is akward this guy is following me". Also it's hard to know if he actually thought about it the rest of the day and wished I would comeback, or if he just forgot it/doesn't care or if he thought to himself "OK what was that". Do you think I missed my chance, or can I actually go back and see what happens next? (if he remembers me and talks, or if he kind of tries to avoid me). I don't want to seem disrespectful or scare him, but man he was so damn fine lol. It's been like a year that I haven't come across a guy that can even compete with this one.
xXMarlboro_ManXx Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 LOL I though this thread was if you were thinking about going back to being gay:lmao: Ok, here's what I said right as I was leaving. lol I said "btw i want to tell you that you are really good looking". I said it low because the other customers weren't far, he didn't hear it at first, so I repeated it... then he said "thank you". Just me personally if some guy told me that I was good looking (Its happened before ) I would avoid all possible contact with them. (I'm not a homophobe or anything but there some lines that shouldn't be crossed) So if you see him again and he seems like he wants to talk to you then maybe you have a chance.
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