joel Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 met a girl randomly at bus stop. we went out 4 xs and on the 4th date we made out heavily -could have had sex but wasn't prepared and couldn't keep the erection. she was hesitant but then she asked if i wanted a relationship and i said yes and then she thought about it and then we made out. i just thought this could be a little too fast, but not sure as i never had this before. i like her but shes very secrective and won't tell you much about her self-whever i ask her questions be it what her parents do for a living , or what she did on the weekend. she won't tell you much . everything is secret. i haven;t asked how many bfs she had or been with-but i'm pretty sure she would evade them. she also very quiet so its hard to figure things out she said she would give a relationship with me a chance, but not sure if she means it or just saying it. the thing i like about her is she doesn;t expect me to pay and if i do she gives me back the money. i'm not being used for money, but i dont want to be used emotionally -as i am inexperience and naive she also doesn't put me in priority and always says maybe.... wednesday even though there are 3 days before hand. like if your the bf you think differently. also i am the one doing all the-lets hang out here, lets do this and that she also said---i'm not a good girl. she then says she likes bad guys and players --what the heck what do you guys think. i just dont want to be played as a fool. shes only here in the city for 5 more months then going back to japan.
jerseyboy Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 LOL Shes trying to tell you shes a slut, just wants to mess around, and you are taking your time trying to romance instead of just tapping her lol. Dude shes only here for 5 months, why the f'k do you imagine shed like to fall in love? Shell go back to being a good girl when shes home aroundf people who know her and she has to worry about her rep, She just wants to have fun
DustySaltus Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 Do the opposite of everything you are doing now and enjoy the ride.... Have fun, wear a 'hat' and don't expect it to evolve into anything more than what it is.
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