milosbaby Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 Hi, Theres a guy in my class at school that I have been interested in. I added him on Facebook not too long ago and he sent me a message two days ago asking what he missed in class and asked if I could fill him in. I gave him my number so I could meet up with him in the library. He texted me and asked me to study for awhile. However, when I was with him he wasn't very talkative and I did most of the question asking. After we started walking to class neither of us spoke really. Is it typical for a guy to act this way the first time he hangs out with a girl? Or is he not interested in me at all so he didn't want to talk much? I also kind of want to ask him to hang out since he just moved here and doesn't know too many people yet..but after talking to him I dont know if thats a good idea. Thanks for your input!
jerseyboy Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 Probably just shy. Most young guys tend to be. Unsure of whether you are justbeing nice or like him etc. One of the funniest memories I have growing up is walking out of school with some friends (all boys prep) and running into some girls hanging out outside. One poor thing was trying to talk me up, I couldnt fathom why, and recall even wondering if one of my friends had told her to in order to punk me. She wasnt very good at it either so just made compliment after compliment in some weird unending chain lol. She complimented everything from my shoes to my shirt to my hair to how tall I was lol. I think it ended when she finally ran out of anything to possibly compliment.
tryagaintoday Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 Probably just shy. Most young guys tend to be. Unsure of whether you are justbeing nice or like him etc. One of the funniest memories I have growing up is walking out of school with some friends (all boys prep) and running into some girls hanging out outside. One poor thing was trying to talk me up, I couldnt fathom why, and recall even wondering if one of my friends had told her to in order to punk me. She wasnt very good at it either so just made compliment after compliment in some weird unending chain lol. She complimented everything from my shoes to my shirt to my hair to how tall I was lol. I think it ended when she finally ran out of anything to possibly compliment. Funny! Anyway, OP. It's just shyness especially early on.
TheLoneSock Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 If he doesn't talk much but still smiles a good amount he's probably just shy. If he does neither and is strictly business, he probably just isn't interested and views you as a classmate and not a potential sexual partner.
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