t0ri Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 (edited) My ex, of two years, and I broke up in February of this year. With the longest span of NC being 3 months, he started talking to me once a month and we eventually met up. No hooking up. Then he talked to me every day for 2-3 weeks after seeing me. And suddenly, he stopped. I then found out he either believed, or was spreading false rumors, that I cheated on him during our relationship (I didn't). This was about a month ago, and I've been seeing someone new since. This weekend, my new guy had a party at his house that I was on my way to when I get a call from him that my EX is there! He had shown up with some girls that were invited to the party. Lovely. I decided not to go to avoid any drama or awkwardness. The next night, I get a text from the ex, and I ignore. Two days later, today, he texts me again. Tells me he met my new boy this weekend and that my new guy asked him to leave the party so that I could come over (which I didn't know). I responded telling him that I had planned on going, but decided not to since he was there and that would be awkward. He then told me, "why would it be?" I told him I thought he might feel weird seeing me with someone else, and I just didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable in case he was there with someone else also. His response? "Na not really. Eh whatev." Whaaaat? What's that supposed to mean? For some reason, I feel sorry for my ex. He treated me badly, broke my heart, then talked endless amounts of crap behind my back. Yet, I feel a little bad for him. I'm really crazy about my new boy, so I'm not sure how to handle this ex situation. I'm honestly completely over him, but feel bad for him as a person. It's probably not healthy to be talking to him, so do I just go NC or tell him to not contact me anymore? I don't want him interfering in my new relationship or trying to work his way back into my head, if he'd even do that. And this quote rings true, so I thought I'd share: "It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives." Edited November 17, 2009 by t0ri
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