ItsAllGoodAgain Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 Ok, so I got caught up in a rebound relationship the last time and got dumped. I'm still getting over the girl. I miss her and care for her but know I don't want to be with her. So I meet someone. She's very cool, attractive and we have fun together. Well, come to find out she had just dumped her ex of 2 years a little over 2 months ago. It's been ok dealing with this because the both of us have been very open with our pasts. We share stories of what went wrong and how this has affected our current state of mind. I've posted here before regarding being intimate with her. We have come very close but there is always something that keeps us from going further. She says its because shes insecure and maybe she is. I know there are many other underlying issues with her ex. They've had little contact for the 2 months but he has just recently began calling and asking her to take him back. He begs and she just tells him its over. I know that I should really just back off and let nature take its course. The two of us are still going through quite a bit and it would only be fair to the both of us to take things easy. It just sucks to think that this could be an opportunity that could easily slip away.
lost_4_words Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 Hey dude, I think your doing the right thing with taking it slow. You got the answer. Just let nature takes it course. Depending on how her breakup went the posion just gotta get out of her system and you don't want to make it a double whammy for yourself. Incidently I'm goin through the same situation (I'm the rebound she left me to go to back to her ex) like you; same age difference, same excuse (if you can call it that) for the break to a breakup. These days I think more with my brain then my heart, it sucks to let your guard down and be disappointed of the outcome when their words don't follow up with their actions, but I guess that's what love does. Hope you the best bro!
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