timmytak Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 Alright so here it is, me(24) and my girlfriend(20) have been fighting over small things every other day, I now just stay calm when she gets mad, when we are at my house and we fight she gets up and leaves, when I am at her house I tell her i am going to leave but i really don’t, i pretend to leave but go back to her room because I don’t want to do that to her, one day we were at her house she was in a bad mood and I was trying to make her feel better and I asked her if she wanted to watch something on her computer, she told me she did not want me to check her computer history and its creepy when I do (I was not even planning to) so I told her I didn’t do anything wrong and I am just going to leave, I left calmly but was in a bad mood now. Fast forward a couple days everything gets better, we go drinking at a bar with some of her co workers, one of her co-workers asked her to take a shot but she did not invite me, the co worker is a chick, I get upset because it would have been nice if she invited me to because I always invite her to do things when my friends ask me to, for example take a shot or whatever I would tell my boys I am going to ask my girl if she wants one to. She could tell that I was upset I told her what was wrong and she tells me that I should have just gone without her asking, I told her I don’t invite myself to do things and she should have asked, she says she sorry and tells me how much she loves and cares about me and wants me to come over so we can have sex, I told her no just to be mean but later I told her I would come over, got to her house and her dad was awake and she said it would be best if I go home and her house is kind of far from where I live, I said fine whatever and she tells me she will make it up to me. The next day she starts her period, never made it up to me, than the next day comes I go over there we start fooling around for 4 minutes than she had to go to work, she said we will continue this later tonight after I get off work, I said ok that’s fine. She comes over and I asked her if she wanted to play monopoly she said sure I ask her if she would like to make a wager she said fine I told her that if I win we will fool around and if I don’t win we don’t have to do anything she agreed to it, after awhile I start winning and she goes I am not going to do anything with you tonight, so I get frustrated go outside to smoke a cigg real quick she asked where I was going I told her and she goes your not going to invite me, than I said ok do you want to go smoke with me she says no (obviously), after the cigg I was good to go, when I get back inside she gets pissed and says we always fight about sex I told her I was over it and did not want her to leave she left anyways, I let her leave and I stayed in my room did not contact her till the next day. I called her she did not pick up so I texted her and said I don’t know why you got mad over me not asking you to smoke a cigg, she replies back that she needs time for herself and we always fight about sex, I told her that is nothing to be mad about I told her what was going on that day and I just got frustrated for a second, she did not care she said she is going to stick with what she says, she always wants things her way I don’t ask for much because I am a simple person she tells me how much she loves me and that I am her everything but if that is the case why would she need time for herself I have a lot of stuff going on in my life and I would never say that to her, we don’t even see each other that much, I felt hurt when she said she needed time for herself that basically said she does not want to be around me and I can not accept that, so I tried to call her and tell her how I felt she didn’t pick up, I used Facebook to write her a letter about how I felt and how I felt that she did not love and care about me as much as she said she did and what she said was hurtful I told her she is not the one for me and I ended it I said a lot more than that but to much to write, I am not sure if I did the right thing but I am just sick and tired about fighting over the smallest **** and she is the one who always gets worked up. There is also me catching her ex messaging her but that’s a different story it just seems there is always something and I don’t understand why. but I ended it deleted any contact even broke my phone because I had a text i could not delete from her. Its driving me nuts I dont know if what I did was the right thing, sorry at work and just needed to express myself and had to type it fast. Thanks for any help or advice.
Author timmytak Posted November 17, 2009 Author Posted November 17, 2009 so I broke up with her last night and she sent me an email "I really hope you find who you are looking for. I guess you will never hear those messages I left on your phone last night. I'll pick my stuff up soon, I'll let you know. sorry you feel that way but I'm not going to fight it if you truly feel that way. guess we were never meant to be. its cool. gluck with everything --" she wants to come pick her stuff up today I dont know what to do! i still want to be with her ahhhhh:confused:
Recommended Posts