floods88 Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 i had a clear out today and i have 5 bin bags full of his stuff that needs to get back to him. its been 3 weeks and he hasnt attempted to try and get it but i need it out of my house. i am NOT breaking NC for this. one other thing. he lived with me at home with my mum and for 3 years she washed his clothes, fed him, gave him lifts where he needed to go, took him on holiday with us and never asked for a penny of maintenance. he hasnt expressed any kind of thanks of any kind for what she did for him. i was at least expecting a thank you text or something. is it just me or is this just really rude and unfair?
HeavenOrHell Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 Can you ask one of your friends or one of his to return his stuff? i had a clear out today and i have 5 bin bags full of his stuff that needs to get back to him. its been 3 weeks and he hasnt attempted to try and get it but i need it out of my house. i am NOT breaking NC for this. one other thing. he lived with me at home with my mum and for 3 years she washed his clothes, fed him, gave him lifts where he needed to go, took him on holiday with us and never asked for a penny of maintenance. he hasnt expressed any kind of thanks of any kind for what she did for him. i was at least expecting a thank you text or something. is it just me or is this just really rude and unfair?
USMCHokie Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 I agree, a mutual friend would be your best bet.
Author floods88 Posted November 17, 2009 Author Posted November 17, 2009 part of me just wants to leave it at mine until he can be bothered to make the effort to get it. i would make sure i wasnt there. i dont wanna play games but i dont wanna be the one making the effort anymore. i want him to feel like he has to do it rather than sitting there and knowing ill get it to him somehow. which im sure is what hes thinking.
USMCHokie Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 part of me just wants to leave it at mine until he can be bothered to make the effort to get it. i would make sure i wasnt there. ^ GAME... i dont wanna play games... give it to a mutual friend and be done with it forever...
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