health Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 My ex has been trying to communicate with me since mid October. Im guessing the guy she broke up with me for did not work out how she had planned. Majority of her attempts are via email and cowardly and guilt ridden. As most of you know I have since started dating another girl and have been quite happy. Despite my greatest efforts to maintain no contact I finally caved on the last email I recieved. However my response was probaly not what she had expected. Email read something like this. JL, I just want you to know that I have made possibly the biggest mistake ever in breaking things off with you. I never realized how much time you made for me, or how much you have done for me until you were gone for good. I think about you often and keep wondering how you are doing. I have gone through a lot of changes in my life and things are no better with you gone. I miss you. I wish there was someway I could change things and go back in time to when we were happy. I really wish I could hear from you. My response: For lack of better judgement I have decided to respond to this email to try to put all of this to a close. I am very glad you realized what a fantastic guy I am and realized how wrong you were in breaking up with me. Its all in the past now and I feel each of us has learned a significant lesson from this. However, there is no way of going back in time to when we were happy, and I am still very happy with who I am. For over 3 years I always did the best I could for you, and for whatever reason at some point that was no longer good enough. At one point I can say I loved you, but that is no longer the case, what was there is now gone. We cant change things, and I feel continuing to converse will simply be unfair to those we date since we have such a history together. There is no use placing anymore blame on who did what or tryin to see how and why things ended. But they did end, there is no going back, and you need to know that I dont have any plans on continuing conversations or replying to anymore of your emails. Im sorry, but you broke a trust that I easily dont give, and I do not want you in my life and you need to accept that. Im sorry to say that I now agree with you that this all was for the best. -JL I hope she leaves me alone...and hope this was the best approach.. I ****ing love you man! That's what's up!!!!!!!!!!!!! That inspires me big time! HA HA HA at her!!!! LMAO!!! Good work man. What this inspired in me - is not to cave in to this slutty girl(other girl not ex) I know for release...as I only dealt with girls I truely loved. I don't give my trust away easy either - and I'm not lowering my standards! I am at over 7 months no contact, also quit cigarettes, drinking and got promoted at work in that time! Thanks for sharing this!
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