sean1970 Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 I had taken some solice in knowing that the breadcrumbs (I miss you... really miss your hugs, think about you all the time....) were very selfish and showed no respect for my feelings.... But I am ashamed to admit that I may have been doing this myself recently... The pain was so acute, so unrelenting, that I reached out to an old ex recently. I made sure she knew exactly where I was emotionally and was completely honest with her (she too was coming out of a breakup)... However, things became intimate and I could tell she was starting to have feelings for me again... I pulled away and she has since stopped talking to me altogether... The irony being that I think she too has lost respect for me seeing me in such a weak state emotionally. I guess I feel I am guilty of exactly what I was blaming the current ex for... It was helpful that I could point to what she did after the breakup and know that it was wrong for her to use me as a doormat for getting over me. I have since done enough embarrassing things to know that whatever respect she had for me is gone... Now from 2 ex's.
Edward10 Posted November 18, 2009 Posted November 18, 2009 Who knows what she is thinking. Maybe she liked seeing you vulnerable and is hurt that you won't continue with her. I hope things turn around for you soon. Not everything comes back to respect and being strong all the time. People are allowed to be vulnerable and it is perfectly ok. Particularly if they are in pain. Especially if they are in pain. Sometimes just being with another person can make the pain recede.
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