Brandon12 Posted December 12, 2003 Posted December 12, 2003 Ok this is how it started. We went out for 1 year and 6 days. She said she would never break up with me and we would go out forever. Well a week ago it all changed she goes out with one of my friends. She broke up with me and now she goes out with him. She still says that she loves and likes me and wants to go out with me but she goes out with him. Am i doing the right thing by still likeing her. If not what should i do?
penguinluv Posted December 12, 2003 Posted December 12, 2003 It kind of seems like she's playing mind games with you. Maybe she's holding something back, or is not quite sure of her feelings for you. You should really talk to her before you do anything. It seems like theres a lot that needs to be worked out between you to. Stand up for yourself.
dyermaker Posted December 12, 2003 Posted December 12, 2003 Pretend you don't like her, don't tell her you love her, and don't act jealous at all. It'll drive her mad.
Author Brandon12 Posted December 12, 2003 Author Posted December 12, 2003 ok i'll do that but if we start talking and she starts to like me again should ask her out or what?
penguinluv Posted December 12, 2003 Posted December 12, 2003 Do what feels right. If you think you still love her and theres a chance to mend the relationship. Just be careful and make sure your certain about your feelings for her. Thats only half of it. It also really matters what she feels too.
dyermaker Posted December 12, 2003 Posted December 12, 2003 Yeah, let her steer it, but be sure to be always in control--Do you get what I'm saying? Be aloof, but don't be withdrawn.
princess75 Posted December 12, 2003 Posted December 12, 2003 Frankly speaking no matter how much you like her, she should have not gone with your friend. What does your friend say about all this? Were you close buddies? If I were you I would move on, and leave both friend and gal behind.
Author Brandon12 Posted December 13, 2003 Author Posted December 13, 2003 ok i might do that but what if she starts to like me alot again and they break up. Should i ask her out? If so, HOw should i and how should i talk to her?
mr_roggger Posted December 13, 2003 Posted December 13, 2003 Don't ask her out straight away. Try being friends with her again if you are really serious about her, and hopefully, if she is serious too, she will make the first move!
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