wendy37 Posted November 16, 2009 Share Posted November 16, 2009 i broke up with my ex 2 and half months ago after finding out for the second time he had been lying to me over lots of things as well as other women....like keeping his mobile right away from me and keeping it on silent..kicking off as a reason to leave!! hes in the british army so its been hard over the last 2 years coz of distense and even though he got moved back to near where i am..i have caught him on dating sites..anyway we ended..yet hes always texting me things like how stunning this ow is then he will say hes with no one then he will say he loves me..basicly pulling in my emotions then pushing them out and leaving me confused and not knowing what im todo here.these games hes playing are constant and i have no strenth to just shut him off...tried going nc but thats not working..please fill me in on what kind of a guy this is please Link to post Share on other sites
nobleguy Posted November 16, 2009 Share Posted November 16, 2009 An idiot. Sorry if that's a bit harsh as I don't know him. My ex has done the same kind of things and it is both cruel and prolongs your torture. Don't let him do it to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wendy37 Posted November 16, 2009 Author Share Posted November 16, 2009 an idiot is an understatement! the guy is a prat yet i cant see the woods through the trees as to speak...hes done so much mentle abuse that i dont know if im comming or going or where im landing here...i have been on other dates just to try and get myself away from this man yet all my dates are a bit rubbish in conversation..ive never been in this situation b4 so its all new Link to post Share on other sites
nobleguy Posted November 17, 2009 Share Posted November 17, 2009 Try not to let it get to you (easier said than done of course ). Dates with others will always seem second rate. I should know, I've been on a few LOL! Most were OK but that's about as much as I can say about them really. If your head is in a state then you probably don't have a lot to give a new bloke anyway right now. Let us know how you're getting on Link to post Share on other sites
trueblue72ny Posted November 17, 2009 Share Posted November 17, 2009 sounds like a selfish person who wants to keep you on a string while he explores his options. My advice to you. find the strength you need to shut him out and move on with your life. at least take enough time away from his influence so you can get your strength back. no one likes to be the back up, or second best in someones life. find someone who will respect you. alternatively, if you enjoy this game, feel free to stay on this roller coaster ride. Link to post Share on other sites
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