If you broke NC..How do YOU think the conversation would REALLY go?

[LovelyDaze]

Most people hope it would be their ex wanting them back right away but I choose to live in reality. Mine would go like this:

 

ME: Hey John, It's me Melissa.

Ex: Uh, hey.

ME: I've been thinking about us and I wanted to....

Ex: Hold on, I got another call.

(silence)

Ex: Hey call me back another time, I got my baby on the other line. Bye!

(me hanging up in shame)

 

 

Hence why I stay NC. It would be something like that..How do you think yours would go?

[dashing daisy]

Since I have broken NC, I know how it goes.

 

It goes one of two ways...

 

1: He quickly makes an excuse to stop talking, and says something like "gotta go, hope everything is good, talk to you later!"

 

2: He goes on and one with some BS about how he thought I was the love of his life, I am perfect, I should never change and it's so painful that he ruined everything and he wishes he could go back in time and never break up with me but he's too upset by what he's done and it's too late...and blah, blah, blah.

 

Either one is painful, and I'm pretty sure he basically doesn't give a ****. If he really loved me and he wanted to be with me, he wouldn't just say he regrets that he messed up but it's too late. If you really care and want to be with someone you at least try. Now I'm just thinking of how stupid I had to have been to fall for this guy...

 

Don't know why sticking to NC is so hard though.

[Boundary Problem]

I don't know the words. But I do know that afterwards I would feel disappointed. If they could give me what I needed we wouldn't have broken up.

[JolliX]

I would see us being sarcastic with each other, and it would just lead to one of us getting angry.

 

One of us would say, "How's it been going?", and from there it would lead into, "How do you think it's been going you dumped me?", "It's none of your business so butt out.", or "Why do you really care?".

 

If that didn't lead to instant hand up from one of us, then it would go into arguement over time as one of us either started ranting and being mad, or the other would talk their view of reason (which our logics do not mix).

 

So basically, it would go horrible.

[Lamak]

One of our last few conversations.

 

*Bumps into each other at a convenience store*

 

Me: Hey.

Ex: Hey, what are you doing here?

Me: Shopping like everyone else.

Ex: Oh.

Me: *Walks away*

Ex: Where are you going? *grabs my arm*

Me: I'm just looking around the store.

Ex: Don't you want to talk to me?

Me: *silence*

Ex: I've been worried about you. I always think about you.

Me: *More silence* *leaves store*

[LovelyDaze]

Oh you guys...your comments are what encourages me to continue NC.

Just the thought of starting over on recovering from that jerk shakes me to the core.

[soheartbroken]

I don't think I would get a response if I tried to break NC. All the more reason to stick with it (3 months now) - don't need any more rejection.