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Something I became aware of recently is bugging me, because I can't make sense of it at all.

 

If you were having an affair, involving texting and talking, maybe even going all the way to physical, lasting at least 3 months, do you think you would know if your AP had a baby or not?

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What does AP stand for? :o

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If you were having an affair, involving texting and talking, maybe even going all the way to physical, lasting at least 3 months, do you think you would know if your AP had a baby or not?

Actually, in an affair, I'd not be all that surprised if I did NOT know.

If it was, er, "regular" dating then yes, after 3 months I would expect to have been told by that point...whether or not we'd had sex.

 

It's interesting cos I'm not even sure why the difference (in my head.) Must have to do with what I'd believe would be my "reasonable expections" and/or "appropriate rights" in an affair. I dunno :confused:

 

Jane, I'm pretty sure 'AP' = affair partner.

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Jane, I'm pretty sure 'AP' = affair partner.

 

ohhhh okay, thanks, that makes sense!

 

3 months seems like a long time to know someone, and not to know about a baby, unless the person was deliberately trying to hide him/her. I'm going to go with "highly unlikely"

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Yes, I meant affair partner when I put AP, sorry.

 

I haven't had an affair, but I have been friends with a few guys in the past that have tried to go there. We started out talking about regular things, including whether or not we had children.

 

I also think even in casual friendships, if you spend any time talking, it would come up, like, the baby kept me up all night teething, or I don't have children yet, or I don't want children.

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