TapiocaDexterin Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 And i feel great, feeling stronger every day. Lapsed back into saddness yesterday and had a little cry, but I'm guessing thats normal and moving on won't happen straight away. I felt better when I thought about how well I had done over the last couple of weeks. So for anyone struggling in the first few days, wait till you get into the double digits and you will feel so much better!
LovelyDaze Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 Go Tapioca Dexterin! Keep the strength up! We all fluctuate between happily succeeding without our ex one day to crawling gloomy and horribly blue in bed over them the next. Feel through the pain 100%. It makes you a fighter. So proud of you!
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted November 16, 2009 Author Posted November 16, 2009 Yea I did crawl into my bed for a couple of hours to feel sorry for myself. But then I got up, washed my hair, went out with the girls and danced the night away! My poor legs are sore today but I'll take the sore muscles over the heartache anyday. Thanks for your kind reply
bafflednhurt Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 i definitely feel your pain. today is day 20 of NC for me. yesterday i had one of those days where i had a cryin' spell over the ex. i miss her terribly. i wish i could get the idea out of my head that one day she will call. my mother and this forum helps me a lot in keeping up NC. i am clinging to the advice i have been reading that it does get easier with time.
name witheld Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 Good old mum! I think even the best of friends will tire of hearing about the situation but you know that family will be there always. Congrats on doing so well in NC. I'm on day 26 today although it is not pure NC as she has contacted me a few times and we have seen each other. So really it is less than a week! Getting stronger though.
aviation_chick Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 how!? ive made a complete fool of myself multiple times because i get so desperate...but i know he doesnt care aboutme anymore but how does someone just throw away EVERYTHING!!!??? long story short i made a 3 day NC then made a complete fool of myself last night...then texted him this morning, no response as usual.....what exactly is the point of NC, he knows i love him so much!!
aviation_chick Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 you are so wise, my sitatuation is HOPELESS he is so mad at me, and he wont even talk to me, he removed ALLLL of our facebook pictures after he deleted me, and then AFTER i made a complete fool of me, he BLOCKED me on facebook, probably the most immature thing i could have done, what i did...does he even care about me? i'm the ONLY girl he wont talk to, how could he do this after our 8 months?!
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