oneof12 Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 my girlfriend basically destroyed me by dumping me and then taking me back and then dumping me again saying she tred but cant lie to herself she just doesnt love me and prolly never will. she said i changed and over the past year+ i really have when she first started dating me i was 298 lbs now im a solid 170 but she said i focused too much on that and i honestly have stopped but i dont kno how to get her back and im laving for boot camp for marines within the next year and im afriad if she doesnt take me back by then it's never gonna happen i simply wont be around for it too.
Boundary Problem Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 She says she doesn't love you. If she wants you she will catch up with you. Don't put your life on hold for her. Doesn't matter what mistakes you made. You listened, you tried to fix, you tried to communicate. Nothing more you can do for her at this point. She is entitled to her own feelings. Congrats on the weight loss!
nobleguy Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 Mine left, then came back, then left again after 4 months. All with the same stuff about not living a lie, no longer loving me, etc. She moved on from me long before she had the guts to do anything about it.
Template Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 Life if fickle like that friend. We all want the things we can't have. One of the crappy stuff about the human condition. You are young, and taking the proper strides moving on and bettering your life. Congratulations on your weight loss, as that is a significant amount, and as a future Marine, thank you for your dedication to keeping our country safe.
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