salem mark Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Regardless of why you were dumped and the hope you'll find love again. you will not meet that person or someone like them again, thats why it kills us, because we know we wont, love stinks!
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Yeap...exactly. I wanted what I thought he was...and now I know what I want, does not exist. He was the dream.....but dreams don't really come true.
Author salem mark Posted November 15, 2009 Author Posted November 15, 2009 dark of the moon, try to remember the good times, and if you really love this guy, hope for his happiness in spite of how he treated you i mean what else can you do
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Yes, I do love him and I hope he has finally found what he wants in his new lady.
sadgirl1 Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Gosh you´re like me!!! Its like we love one person and no matter what life brings us we always will love them! I have a great story to tell you guys about always loving someone! My mom was pregnant with me when she was 18! So her Guy left her because he was an *******... ( my biological father) He left her and just 6 months later he married another girl!!! He was young and didnt know how to handle the Situation with my Mom being pregnant so he wanted her to stop the pregnancy! She didnt want to so he went away! Then after like 2 years my mom found another guy and he was nice and good to her and accepted me as a her daughter! They moved out to germany ( I am from Poland) and since I was a lil girl i thought he was my Daddy and he was like my daddy! Everything was great my mom and my new dad had another child ( my lil brother now 17) When i was 13 i got to know that i had another dad living in Poland and i wanted to meet him! So i have been a week at my biological dad and his new family ( i got a younger sister and another younger brother) After that week i never heard from him again! Til last year i have been an au pair in NY and one day i was talkin to my mom on the phone and she told me that she doesnt love my Stepdad anymore! She got in contact with my real dad in poland and they met and talked things out things that have been 20 years ago!!!! My mom wants to get divorced and my real dad wants to get divorced too! After almost 20 years they have found each other again and fell in Love again! I could never really forgive him that he left my Mom and i was so sorry for my stepdad cause he has always been there for us! But my mom didnt love him the way she always loved my real dad! She said he made a mistake back then and he was young and stupid! Yesterday my mom told me that the first time they talked on the phone after sooo many years the first thing he said was: WOW its like you have always been there and i feel like you have never been so far away for so long! They always loved each other even though he made the big mistake andleft my mom! He is now very sorry for what he did and he really changed! I still dont know how to think about this or how to feel! I feel like i am inbetween something! I dont understand why my mom wants to leave my stepdad cause he has been there for us all the time BUT she says things are different now and she always loved my real dad no matter how hard it was back then! Now they both wanna live together after they met a few times! First they have to leave their wifes and husbands which really sucks cause i am so sorry that this happend! Its confusing for me and the whole situation is so crazy!!! But on the other side i am very impressed that a love can last for so long even if you have a completely different live with someone else its like there still is this ONE LOVE you once had and can never forget! People make mistakes and move on and live their lifes but somewhere deep in your heart there is someone else! Its crazy cause this really happend! I am still a upset but i can not change my moms feelings! Its just crazy! I am sorry for this long story! ;-) just wanted to share this cause its so unbelivable for me that something like that can happen even after 20 years and after everything that happend inbetween! And this i kinda happening to me and its so unreal! So maybe there is always a chance for this one love once you found it! Its Life it is what it is!
teanoranges Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 I know how you guys feel! I loved him and do hope he finds happiness... it just hurts to think he finds happiness with the person he left you for.. I don't want them to work out, but after her, I wouldn't hurt as much with who he falls for... its the initial shock... Horrible of me to feel and I've been fighting the feeling. As for the story from sadgirl, its really tough to see it happen like that. You got to feel bad for the people who they are leaving. And then I always get the notion of lovers meeting up 20+ years later... I feel like all that time in between was wasted. We have so little time on this planet and so little time to be adventurous. I want a lover I can be adventurous with, and then settle down and have those memories. Instead of finding them later and being 'this is what I did without you for so long, it was so fun, too bad you weren't a part of it'
sadgirl1 Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Oh yeah I know what you mean! I think the same way! I too wanna have someone I can share my Life with not someone who missed all the things! But this is life! This is what happens to us and we can not do anything about it! We can do our best and see where it takes us! We´ll never know! :-( Yes i do still love him too! More than anything! It hurts so much because he left me for his Ex Girlfriend and he always talked so negative about her and so positive about me! Its like we were made for each other and he knew that cause he told me he feels like it! And still he couldnt let go the past! I truly love him so I hope he is doing good and is happy...BUT I dont want them to work out! They have split up a few times before he met me and I think there was a reason so why picking in old garbish? I will never understand! I´m sorry for everyone whos got their heart broken! Good to know you´re not alone! Theres no Love without Pain I guess!
Author salem mark Posted November 15, 2009 Author Posted November 15, 2009 sad girl , looking at your pic, you wont have a hard time meeting your next love thanks for heartbreak apology, it helps
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