READ THIS: NC reveals ur EX's TRUE depth of character, maturity and commitment!

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i am one of the most sensitive people and its SO hard for me to let go of things so i am telling you 5 weeks NC has helped me maintain and keep MY dignity in tact. It WILL help you in the early stages of the break up during your WEAKEST moments!!!!! GOD knows that i needed NC as advocated here on LS to not pitifully run back to potentially BEG to work things out with my ex and maybe even compromise myself my person in the process...

 

look at what NC and a LITTLE patience helped me attain: the knowledge that with a LITTLE bit PEOPLE just MINIMAL basic self control (i promise you WILL NOT die) of not running back to your previous love...that the other persons TRUE depth of character, maturity and commitment can be gradually revealed!

 

I know it hurts okay im not denying that i didnt starve b/c i had no appitite or cry my eyes out WEEKS on end day and night or have very VERY dark thoughts...darkest entertained thoughts in my whole life ever!

 

BUT NC helped me discover that if YOUR LOVE attachment can let 5 weeks (potentially months or years people) pass without calling on you to come back to professing you as their true love and precious unconditionally committed girlfriend/boyfriend then your EX is at a completely different stage in life and different LEVEL/depth of love feelings towards you than you WERE for him...NC was instrumental in helping me confront this cold hard truth and LS was vital to turn to when the realization/acceptance began to appear with the pain that appears along with all of that! people it hurts okay but your GONNA BE OKAY! i swear i wouldnt have believed it...i swear you just need some time APART from those emotionally painful triggers BE STRONG and disciplined okay?

 

LS helped me not hold on to the EX's negative shortcomings and wrap my emotions around it and NC/LS helped me REALLY REALLY confront my own issues that i used relationship to avoid confronting my issues for FAR too long...oh man it was scary as hell and i am sure i have much to keep working on but the dignity i maintained YOU will be able to relate to these words 100% but u GOTTA hold on and try hard to stop this suffering u will be stronger after everything is said and done...okay so dont u all wanna maintain your dignity and be true to your own self? stop giving the power of yourself to another human being...!!

 

Good luck okay and post here if you need any encouragement AT all...im still new as it's only been like 5 weeks NC...but it's still a head start for some of you who JUST got here devastated...hehe i know i have been there and i am on my way to being okay...this is NOT a vain attempt to comfort myself I am writing you all with all of my heart and i know i have made progress b/c im not sobbing as im writing these things to you...so be strong you will be alright! life goes on...i promise.