betamanlet Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 My observating this AM from washington DC. Of the people i saw, the ones I could be sure were couples (evidence by holding hands and kissing), I saw 6 couples. In all cases, the guy was taller, the woman was heavier.
Els Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 Women should never date a man who has two of the three:(not necessarily in this order) 1) less money 2) less education 3) less attractive Men who have three of three or even two of three have a way of equalizing the field, mostly by emotionally abusing the women. This must be the most absurd theory I've ever seen on the board (except those by obvious trolls). Men who have less money, education, and looks abuse women to equalize the field?! Wtf??!?
Author b52s Posted November 17, 2009 Author Posted November 17, 2009 On a DAILY basis, I see FAR more couples where the guy is thin/in shape and the woman is overweight than I see of the reverse. I see much more of this than the reverse. Then that makes sense, that means more men are dating down, because they know that these women are more attainable and more than likely to be loyal and stick around. This is why you see SO many really HOT women that are chronically single. Example, age 45 and smoking hot body. Yet, has never been married and has no children. These ladies are picking the equally "Ken" GQ guys with name brand suits and ties, broad jawline, etc etc. And they are STILL picking THOSE guys apart as well as suitors.
C-i-C-u Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 Then that makes sense, that means more men are dating down, because they know that these women are more attainable and more than likely to be loyal and stick around. This is why you see SO many really HOT women that are chronically single. Example, age 45 and smoking hot body. Yet, has never been married and has no children. These ladies are picking the equally "Ken" GQ guys with name brand suits and ties, broad jawline, etc etc. And they are STILL picking THOSE guys apart as well as suitors. HOT women are chronically single because most men use them or are afraid of them. Also many times a HOT women will give you the nastiest look if you are not what they find attractive, they won't even give you props for having the courage to approach them. And they always believe the world is about them. Many do. I have known HOT women who have gotten married and stayed married, and sometimes if their husband dies young and they are still attractive. Like this women I knew who was in her 40s. She was HOT!! So were her children, especially daughters, they came out with her HOT body and HOT face. Well she wanted to date only for "fun". See most HOT women are like prostitutes. They are unemotionally attached when they have sex. So cheating or going partner from partner is easy so they are more likely to remain unattached until she matures in person. Until that she is most likely to be just promiscious and date around. But for the HOT women who date/are dating "ugly" men, they are trying to find a real lifelong partner.
Author b52s Posted November 17, 2009 Author Posted November 17, 2009 HOT women are chronically single because most men use them or are afraid of them. Also many times a HOT women will give you the nastiest look if you are not what they find attractive, they won't even give you props for having the courage to approach them. And they always believe the world is about them. Many do. I have known HOT women who have gotten married and stayed married, and sometimes if their husband dies young and they are still attractive. Like this women I knew who was in her 40s. She was HOT!! So were her children, especially daughters, they came out with her HOT body and HOT face. Well she wanted to date only for "fun". See most HOT women are like prostitutes. They are unemotionally attached when they have sex. So cheating or going partner from partner is easy so they are more likely to remain unattached until she matures in person. Until that she is most likely to be just promiscious and date around. But for the HOT women who date/are dating "ugly" men, they are trying to find a real lifelong partner. Like that song says, "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, you don't make a pretty woman your wife, if you want my personal point of view, you get an ugly girl to marry you!" LOL!!
justforfun Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 Then that makes sense, that means more men are dating down, because they know that these women are more attainable and more than likely to be loyal and stick around. This is why you see SO many really HOT women that are chronically single. Example, age 45 and smoking hot body. Yet, has never been married and has no children. These ladies are picking the equally "Ken" GQ guys with name brand suits and ties, broad jawline, etc etc. And they are STILL picking THOSE guys apart as well as suitors. OhMyGosh!!!!
justforfun Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 OhMyGoodGosh...I don't know whether to laugh or cry. HOT women are chronically single because most men use them or are afraid of them. Also many times a HOT women will give you the nastiest look if you are not what they find attractive, they won't even give you props for having the courage to approach them. And they always believe the world is about them. Many do. I have known HOT women who have gotten married and stayed married, and sometimes if their husband dies young and they are still attractive. Like this women I knew who was in her 40s. She was HOT!! So were her children, especially daughters, they came out with her HOT body and HOT face. Well she wanted to date only for "fun". See most HOT women are like prostitutes. They are unemotionally attached when they have sex. So cheating or going partner from partner is easy so they are more likely to remain unattached until she matures in person. Until that she is most likely to be just promiscious and date around. But for the HOT women who date/are dating "ugly" men, they are trying to find a real lifelong partner.
Curious-One Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 I think personality matters more than people realize it. For me i would much rather date/ marry an average looking girl with great personality than a great looking girl (10 /10) with bad personality. Now if we are talking about one night stands or flings , its a totally different story. One thing about me is i dont like lazy people so i dont understand how some girls/guys with great face allow themselves to get that fat. I am 6'4 160 pounds (pretty skinny) but still i joined a gym to gain some muscles and improve my looks. I dont get it, how can you look at yourself in the mirror each morning see that you are fat and not do something about it. I barely ever see fat people in the gym , its mostly average people....i dont get why. I also took a nutrition class this semester and guess what ...i only saw one person that i would consider overweight. Only way i could describe it is ...that person is lazy!
justforfun Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 I think personality matters more than people realize it. For me i would much rather date/ marry an average looking girl with great personality than a great looking girl (10 /10) with bad personality. Now if we are talking about one night stands or flings , its a totally different story. One thing about me is i dont like lazy people so i dont understand how some girls/guys with great face allow themselves to get that fat. I am 6'4 160 pounds (pretty skinny) but still i joined a gym to gain some muscles and improve my looks. I dont get it, how can you look at yourself in the mirror each morning see that you are fat and not do something about it. I barely ever see fat people in the gym , its mostly average people....i dont get why. I also took a nutrition class this semester and guess what ...i only saw one person that i would consider overweight. Only way i could describe it is ...that person is lazy! But that is assuming that a woman can't be beautiful and have a great personality. Overweight people aren't lazy. Do you honestly think they look in the mirror and don't care. Even the ones who say they do are lying to themselves. But it's not an issue of being lazy. There are a whole host of psychological issues going on. Good on you for taking action. But don't ruin it by being judgmental of those who don't. Because that just makes you an attractive person with a bad personality.
D-Jam Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 I look at "dating down" as when you select someone whom you know won't be an ideal mate for you. When you pick someone for the sake of "having someone" because you hate being single that much more. I've seen very attractive men and women hook up with people who maybe were not as equal or "up there" on the looks scale, but they found a happiness that they didn't find before. For many, it's because they either aren't as heavy on looks as they are on other things, or even they spent a lot of time chasing "hotness", but only to end up disappointed. I remember one good looking guy getting with a very average looking woman, but he spoke about how she brought him soup when he was sick and can hold a real conversation with him. Totally upped the "perceived hotness" in his eyes. Seen the same with women. Some might chase the ugly guy because he's got money or something shallow, but I like to believe if you chase "good looking" people to a point that it seems every "hot" person you date ends up being a disappointment, the more realistic folk rethink it all and look for "ideal" over "trophy". I've seen women who could be Vogue Models pick very average guys because they went looking for an actual real man in a sea of horny handsome boys who only saw her as a prize.
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