Thebob Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 So I found out recently that my ex is dating someone who she made fun of quite often during the summer when me and her were dating (BTW he looks like a smurf and is at least a 5 outta 10 on the good looking scale)... The way I look at it is like this and tell me if my assessment is wrong. So last year at school, she hooked up with this guy, but supposedly this guy was so horrible that she couldn't take it anymore ( in the hooking up department and is her current boyfriend ). Then she met me during the summer and enjoyed being with me and what not. I broke it off with her when she told me some really mean stuff when she went LDR for 3 weeks. You all know what happened if you read my posts back then. So the only conclusion to why she would do this is because she was so lonely, that when I broke it off with her, that she was in the stage of her life that S*X was her main concern and needed attention a lot. So the only guy that was around was this guy who she hooked up with, and he liked her since the previous year. But she didn't like him then due to that fact that he was horrible in the sack. So I think she went back with him because he would provide the attention she needed, and once they started to F*CK she realized that she had 6 more months of school and didn't want to be seen as a girl who just does that and doesn't make it official. She couldn't even last a 3 week long distant with me, so when summer comes she is goin to have another 3.5 month LDR that she is goin to have to deal with this current guy. I honestly think I dated a girl that is immature, and will say anything to get any guy she likes in the sack. I know that I should get over her, and assessments like this are wrong, but everyone on this forum likes answers, and I feel that assessment is dead on. This girl is young like myself ( college years ) and most girls and guys go through this phase of where intimacy is important and you need to have some lovin at least 1nce every month. Luckily im out of that phase and lookin for something deeper but I feel she wasn't and she is still immature since she told me she wanted those random hook up nights when we were dating and that is why I broke it off with her. Hopefully I am wrong, but for her to do that and date this current guy, I have lost a lot of dignity for her. You honestly shoulda heard the things she said about her current boyfriend during the summer. It was quite depressing in my opinion, so when I saw her date that guy officially, i was utterly shocked... Thebob
nobleguy Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Mine spent two years telling me how unimportant 4 blokes were on FB and she ended up trying to cop off with all of them at one point or another during our on-off seperations. Made me realise what kind of character my ex really had. She's 28 but also incredibly immature (during arguments she acts like she is in the school playground) and although it's hard to truly believe myself when I say it right now, I do think in the long term I will be better without her.
Author Thebob Posted November 16, 2009 Author Posted November 16, 2009 B*tches be running wild man. They can't live without d*ck for more than a month when there goin through their phase, it gets ridiculous. Thebob
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