Gucci Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 ive seen so many thread that people posted up asking on how to get their ex back and most advice is telling them to go on NC and act like the break up has no impact on them etc...the NC is really for you to heal not to get ex back! =) there is no point of begging the dumpers back if they left....if you play mind games to get that person back...how long do they stay for and find out the same old problem is still there? afterall they left for a reason. And if you begged and they come back...they would just take you for granted...unless they come back themself and willing to really work on the problems... just let them lose...if they dont belong to you...no amount of begging, strategic gaming bla bla bla would help. they want to leave..just let them leave..go with the flow.. hope everybody's life is a smooth sailing including mine..
HeavenOrHell Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Good post I let mine go, no way would I ever plead or beg, I have more respect that than.
nobleguy Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Yeah it is a good post. Most people unfortunately do the begging before getting a chance to think clearly (me included).
teanoranges Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 I looked like a fool definitely during the break-up, and when I realized it was over I called him to I guess get closure.. looked foolish most likely, now I'm done looking stupid.
GrayClouds Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 people if you other halfs wants to leave...set them free did Sting say that first?
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