fantasam Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 I had told this girl awhile back that I just wanted to be friends, but recently started to develop feelings for her. I talked with her about it and told her I figured it was probably too late but I at least wanted to let her know how I felt even though she had probably moved on. She wanted to meet up and talk more about it, and said it wasn't too late and kind of implied she was still interested a little bit. She was going out of town but said when she got back that she'd contact me, but she did not, and she has sort of blew me off since we talked last. I've contacted her about going on a date and have not heard back. Did she maybe decide it was a bad idea after all? I'm trying to think of all the possibilities. I know I will likely get slack on here for telling her I wasn't interested awhile back (unfortunately I can't take that back), but just curious of some genuine opinions of what may be going on in her head now. Maybe she wants me to feel bad this time? If so, it did work. Thanks for listening.
DanielMadr Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 I had told this girl awhile back that I just wanted to be friends, but recently started to develop feelings for her. I talked with her about it and told her I figured it was probably too late but I at least wanted to let her know how I felt even though she had probably moved on. She wanted to meet up and talk more about it, and said it wasn't too late and kind of implied she was still interested a little bit. She was going out of town but said when she got back that she'd contact me, but she did not, and she has sort of blew me off since we talked last. I've contacted her about going on a date and have not heard back. Did she maybe decide it was a bad idea after all? I'm trying to think of all the possibilities. I know I will likely get slack on here for telling her I wasn't interested awhile back (unfortunately I can't take that back), but just curious of some genuine opinions of what may be going on in her head now. Maybe she wants me to feel bad this time? If so, it did work. Thanks for listening. Maybe she wasn't that much interest at start either. And / Or she just wants her revenge. I say, call her once more and ask her out on date. She might be playing hard to get. If she declines tell her not to be a chicken. If she declines after that or flakes, move on.
boogieboy Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Shes not going to go out with you because she knows that you werent interested enough in her the first time, whic hmeans you will never take her seriously in her mind. She moved on to someone else, cut your losses.
dreamergrl Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Shes not going to go out with you because she knows that you werent interested enough in her the first time, whic hmeans you will never take her seriously in her mind. She moved on to someone else, cut your losses. Agreed. Also, chances are, you probably started wanting her when she stopped pining after you.
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