novack Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Long story- DATED this girl in univ. for 2 years. I was her 1st everything, she my first love She ended it in aug, over needing to be alone (aka **** other guys...) and she was super ****ty at the end... I have been NC for 34 days now (yippie) and don't really have a desire to talk to her.. btw i have also been feeling very good about it, i no longer miss her more i miss being in a relationship.. Okay so party tonight at a med. sized apartment, my friends are djing and it looks to be a super fun party. I have quite alot of friends going including some of her mutual ones as well! My ex is going to be there and i have no interest in talking to her... but i am unsure if i can go to the party (maybe i'll freak out if i see her making out with a guy)... I would love to go but am conflicted... i'm not drinking too much so will have my wits with me i think i might be okay but again not sure..
lilbelle Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 i couldn't go. no way. i'm avoiding at all costs
kickintheaz Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Long story- DATED this girl in univ. for 2 years. I was her 1st everything, she my first love She ended it in aug, over needing to be alone (aka **** other guys...) and she was super ****ty at the end... I have been NC for 34 days now (yippie) and don't really have a desire to talk to her.. btw i have also been feeling very good about it, i no longer miss her more i miss being in a relationship.. Okay so party tonight at a med. sized apartment, my friends are djing and it looks to be a super fun party. I have quite alot of friends going including some of her mutual ones as well! My ex is going to be there and i have no interest in talking to her... but i am unsure if i can go to the party (maybe i'll freak out if i see her making out with a guy)... I would love to go but am conflicted... i'm not drinking too much so will have my wits with me i think i might be okay but again not sure.. if you feel ready to cope with seeing her then go.. but if conversation seems apparent, a polite, 'hows things'.. and move on.. don't get yourself stuck in a corner with her.. and remember, there is nothing stopping you politely leaving if it all gets too much.. not like she has to see ya go or know why you are going (have that air of mystery about ya!) don't get stuck in silly games though if its apparent she is flirting with other guys for your 'benefit'.. you're better than that..
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