Failing tonight

[Dark_of_the_Moon]

Just can't seem to be positive right now.

 

For some reason today I am truly missing a human touch, wishing I had someone to hold and just be with, someone to talk with.

 

I know I am a strong woman...but, I am tired, so very tired of being alone, of having to being strong.

 

Have a long weekend to face.

[twinklecat]

I feel exactly the same tonight, after the week I have had, gone from being angry and thinking positively to just so sorrowful at the moment. Wish I had some positive things to say, but can't find those words or thoughts at the moment.

[Lamak]

Just remember that these feelings will pass. That's the best advice I can give.

[rickigal]

I feel that way often. In fact I feel that way now. The feelings do pass. Especially by not dwelling. Sometimes I feel like I am not valuable as a person because he doesn't want to be with me. Like I am not what I thought. This isn't true though. I tell myself that. Tomorrow is a new day.

[jv032889]

Everyday is another chance. There is someone special out there for all of us. We just have to be patient and overcome these bumpy roads. It gets easier with time

[HeavenOrHell]

Me too hun, I just want a cuddle, haven't had one for months (((((hugs)))))

 

 

Just can't seem to be positive right now.

 

For some reason today I am truly missing a human touch, wishing I had someone to hold and just be with, someone to talk with.

 

I know I am a strong woman...but, I am tired, so very tired of being alone, of having to being strong.

 

Have a long weekend to face.

[HeavenOrHell]

My someone special was my ex

 

 

 

Everyday is another chance. There is someone special out there for all of us. We just have to be patient and overcome these bumpy roads. It gets easier with time

[mickleb]

Yeah. I'm with you.

 

And THIS bit is getting harder! I waiver in-between going on a date with someone (not to jump into ANYTHING at all) but just to feel there is a real possibility of ever touching someone again! Or bearing it (which, can bring unwanted memories of him).

 

On the positive side, I think it means you, DOM, are a good way down that healing path. And it is SO normal, too. Isn't this why couples get together (otherwise we'd get by with friends, wouldn't we?) My dog gets a lot of extra cuddling during this time, which helps me but (being a bit arthritic) maybe, doesn't impress her as much.

 

I don't know of anything that reminds me of being alone more. But is it also a signal of your strength. Many people run headlong into rebounds or just 'a' relationship to deal with this stuff. You know you can deal with it and that dealing with it brings greater rewards.

 

You owe it to yourself to feel these feelings. You are actually feeling self-respect. Try to see it as a kindness you are giving to yourself. Perhaps? (I'm sending a hug through the ether.)

 

x

[amtz]

Maybe its just the weekend... I have been between heaven & hell this past 3 weeks. During week days I manage myself to be stable since I'm busy in other things, but weekends specially Sundays are hard to manage in my case. why?? Well its reasonable since I have more free time and less things to keep my mind busy, also weekends were pretty much planed for knowing I would spend time with her (go out, get together, movies, clubbing, intense nights of passion till sunrise etc.) since she is no longer with me all this memories storm and make me feel that I cant keep handling this crap!!! On the other hand I'm doing much better now comparing to where I was when the wound was fresh...

 

Hope you get better and that you heal soon... remember in time you will find peace and it is normal to feel what you feel, but above all this YOU ARE NOT ALONE & YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE SPECIAL!!!

 

Will pray for you

[Dark_of_the_Moon]

Went to bed way to early last night...at least I get plenty of sleep these days. Also I have my dogs, they love me.

 

Thank you for the thoughts and kind words *hugs*