TaraMaiden Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 so you guys think i should just dig deep. And completely block her out starting now?. yes!!!! no 2nd chances or anything? no!!!!
Author guuunot Posted November 15, 2009 Author Posted November 15, 2009 im trying my best to do this NC. she texted me like twice last night once from the party and then to tell me shes home. but i didnt reply. but i was glad she got home.
TaraMaiden Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 change your number. Block her texts. You simply don't have a clue, do you? Have you read the no contact guide? I mean, really read it? Listen, if you don't want to do 'no contact', and you want to perpetuate this constant texting and whatnot - go right ahead. Keep in touch with her. But don't come on here whingeing about your breaking heart, because now - it's you that's doing it, not her. She's made her intentions quite evident. She's not creating this confusion and misery now. It's you. Doing it to yourself. We've all given you hard, strong and reliable advice - that works. What you do about it, is your concern, but take the consequences. Ok?
nobleguy Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 im trying my best to do this NC. she texted me like twice last night once from the party and then to tell me shes home. but i didnt reply. but i was glad she got home. Seriously mate, I broke NC/LC so often to text her, read her texts and generally fight like cat and dog over our break-up (I honestly think it hit her as hard as it did me). It has made me feel worse about the whole thing and it's prolonged the torture. She has hit me on multiple occassions after fights with "Well if you thought we would ever get back together you can forget it now...", implying there was still a chance before each argument. I don't know if she was telling the truth, but each time it messed my head up so badly. Take the advice given, please...
mark982 Posted November 16, 2009 Posted November 16, 2009 i love taras advice. buddy don't even read her texts. it's no longer you concern if she gets ome ok,it's no longer your concern if she's in a bind and needs help. get the hint. change your darn phone number or block her calls. you need to seem as if you fell off the face of the earth.
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