selena_cat Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 hey, in spite what everyone says to you,i'll say the oposite,no dont block him,you erally dont want to so why should you,at least he knows that you are getting his msgs and that you Chose not to respond,go on about yoru businesss girl,i get upset everytime my ex e-mails me and say somethign stupid,at least you know better than to respond which is much better. Do always what your gut tells you to do.
Author EricaH329 Posted November 14, 2009 Author Posted November 14, 2009 Erica, stop being so hard on yourself!! Everything WILL be fine. Time Will take care of this, and you will come through it. You have provided so much support for others on this forum, and I always find wisdom and insights in the things you write. It IS inevitable that you will come through this, and the sun will shine again for. I can totally relate to your comment that you are 'emotionally unavaialble'. I recently had a wonderful lady bestow attention upon me, but I was just unable to give of myself.... Its no wonder that your Ex continues to make contact with you. He wants to have you in his life in some capacity. Your postings demonstrate that your a special girl.......... Thank you so much rp!! It's hard for me to look back at the advice i've given to others, when I was at my best. I should be following my own advice, but right now I just can't. I feel like i'm in a rut. I know that I shouldn't be so hard on myself, but this is how I get when I know something is wrong. I fight it. I fight it with everything I have. I'm sure that in a couple of days i'll be back to normal, it's just that everything hit me really hard today. I was doing fine when he wasn't trying to contact me. I think now what I need to do is try to separate my life from his, all over again. I feel connected to him again. I need to remove myself from him. It'll be tough, and I know the next few days are probably going to be the worst yet, but I know that i'll come out of it. I just need time. hey, in spite what everyone says to you,i'll say the oposite,no dont block him,you erally dont want to so why should you,at least he knows that you are getting his msgs and that you Chose not to respond,go on about yoru businesss girl,i get upset everytime my ex e-mails me and say somethign stupid,at least you know better than to respond which is much better. Do always what your gut tells you to do. Thank you for the advice! I thought I would get a million posts bashing me for not blocking him, i'm surprised at all the support i'm getting. I really appreciate it.
Author EricaH329 Posted November 14, 2009 Author Posted November 14, 2009 What makes this even worse is that i've had this great weekend planned for weeks now. I've really been looking forward to it, and now I feel as though my mood has ruined the excitement. I'm going to try and remain positive, try and forget about all the nonsense i'm putting myself through and go out and have a great time. I'm getting ready to leave now, so I suppose I should start working on getting myself out of this mood.
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