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Not just a red flag, but a dealbreaker


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If that's what you care about then more power to you.

 

  • I don't need to waste my time and resources to propagate someone else genetic legacy, nor do I want to put up with the inevitable conflicts and issues over kids when they are not even my kids. Nothing personal, but why should I accept that if I don't have to?
  • Chronic disease is not pretty and I feel bad for people who have it, but I don't need to fall in love with someone who is afflicted. Why do that when there are so many healthy people out there?
  • Activists are like toy poodles, sort of fun and cute to watch bounce around but ultimately there's not enough coffee in the world to make them seem worth the effort.

 

Make sure you get all that on your online dating profile to weed out the nutjobs :)

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Make sure you get all that on your online dating profile to weed out the nutjobs :)

 

I don't do online dating much, and I'm not looking ATM.

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For me it would probably be:

 

- People who drink excessively (I don't drink at all myself)

 

- People who smoke

 

- People who do drugs (any... even marijuana)

 

- People who are immature

 

- People who posses no financial responsibility

 

- People who are extremely religious, but more its people who try to force religion (any religion) on me.

 

- People who are overweight (For most people, being overweight is due to their mindset. I stay healthy, I would prefer my partner to stay healthy too.)

 

- People who are significantly less intelligent than me. (Sounds horrible, I know, but it just doesn't work out well to be on two completely different levels.).

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Disloyalty...:( not being able to differentiate between "friends" and others, and choosing the wrong one...:eek:

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Republicans. ..It makes me very sad to see people say those with bipolar disorder should be automatically excluded.

 

You expect people to give you a chance despite a diagnosed personality disorder, yet nix people based on political party affiliation? That's just amazing.

 

Guess you haven't figured out yet that both political parties are just a different coat of paint on the same crappy car.

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Feminists

 

Excessive drug use but weed is perfectly okay with me

 

Overly religious

 

No sense of accountability

 

Emotionally unstable

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Some dealbreakers of mine, no particular order:

 

Political naivete or inflexibility

Inconsistent, actions don't match the words that come out of her mouth

Personality Disordered

Breast implants, use of tanning beds

Alcoholic, pot smoking is fine in moderation, much preferable to being with a drunk

Liar or heavy rationalizer, won't take accountability, always completely blameless

Cheater

Vegan

Felon

Drug addict or too many prescription meds, on SSRIs without a plan to get off them

Materialistic

Fat

Loud

Whiny

Disrespectful

Vain

High Maintenance

Drama Addict

Attention Addict

Luxury Addict

Dumb

Illogical

Privileged

Spoiled, difference between privileged and spoiled, spoiled means never said no to, privileged sees nothing wrong with having never been said no to

Catty

Impulsive Spender

Infantile or Childish

Passive

Frigid

 

Yes, it is a unicorn, but we can keep dreaming.

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Is the above describing a woman or man?

 

For a woman, the big dealbreakers are

 

Kids, and past abortions (I like to get a little damned if you do, damned if you don't thing going on, it excites me)

 

Current drug use

 

Overweight, upper quadrant of normal weight

 

Previous Marriages, engagements

 

STDs, and a history of infidelity.

 

Snip Snap indeed

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