Lost&Found Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 After my GF left I had this terrible feeling of loss and sadness and missing her so much, knowing I would take her back in a heartbeat. But when I found out she left me to be with another guy I was filled with anger, I did not miss her, I would never take her back, I felt. But then the next day I am missing her and wishing she would break up with the guy and come back to me. But then I would be a total idiot to take her back after that. So then I feel angry again. Then sad. Then wanting to move on and meet someone new someday. Then I miss her again. Is this normal?? I have had no desire to contact her whatsoever so I guess that is a step in the right direction.
worldcavedin Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 After my GF left I had this terrible feeling of loss and sadness and missing her so much, knowing I would take her back in a heartbeat. But when I found out she left me to be with another guy I was filled with anger, I did not miss her, I would never take her back, I felt. But then the next day I am missing her and wishing she would break up with the guy and come back to me. But then I would be a total idiot to take her back after that. So then I feel angry again. Then sad. Then wanting to move on and meet someone new someday. Then I miss her again. Is this normal?? I have had no desire to contact her whatsoever so I guess that is a step in the right direction. I can relate to what you have said above, as i feel the same with the only exception is that i do want to contact her like every minute of the day. So i would say it is normal but to be honest i dont know if i am normal!! hope you find calmness soon
AliveAndKicking Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Welcome to the emotional rollercoaster! Keeps your hands and feet in the vehicle at all times and make sure the safety restraint is properly secured because it's gonna be ONE HELL OF A RIDE! The ups and downs, back and forth, love her, miss her, hate her, want her, I'm movin' on, etc., are perfectly normal. Given a little time and a little self-work those waves will settle into ripples and before too long it will become a distant and faded memory in the far recesses of your mind. Hang in there, move through the feelings with grace and digity, and all will be well.
nobleguy Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Is this normal?? Very normal. I've wanted to kill my ex (literally), then take her back, then want to talk to her, then never want to talk to her again, then think her new boyfriend is welcome to her, then I'm insanely jealous. All in a matter of half an hour.
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