mybrowneyedgirl Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 i thought husband meant something else which made me think woman/not man. sorry. but the underlying thoughts are the same. they dont change with gender.
Author Mini-Me Posted November 12, 2009 Author Posted November 12, 2009 Exactly. I hope you take this time and take care of you and your heart and not be concerned about what is or isn't going on in their home. I think I am OK.. It is just a VERY weird feeling. I mean, I don't know if you would call this an "Affair". I mean, certainly things were "inappropriate" and there was extreme "growth" between us and dependancy on each other, love for each other etc... I dont know. I know every other person would label it an affair... It is like a shot to the stomach and I have been throwing up today... oh well, I am sure BH has done his share of puking as well....
NoIDidn't Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 I think I am OK.. It is just a VERY weird feeling. I mean, I don't know if you would call this an "Affair". I mean, certainly things were "inappropriate" and there was extreme "growth" between us and dependancy on each other, love for each other etc... I dont know. I know every other person would label it an affair... It is like a shot to the stomach and I have been throwing up today... oh well, I am sure BH has done his share of puking as well.... I'm sorry to hear this. It gets better though. I have a hard time defining when inappropriate ends and affair begins as well.
Author Mini-Me Posted November 12, 2009 Author Posted November 12, 2009 I'm sorry to hear this. It gets better though. I have a hard time defining when inappropriate ends and affair begins as well. Well I am sure any spouse would have no problem defining what this was and that it clearly was inappropriate. I still am floored by the day that she looked at me and told me that she was in love with me, and then all of the growth after that. I am still floored that THIS woman did this. I mean, I am here to tell you that if it could happen with her, it could happen with anybody... The thing that hurts the most is that I KNEW/KNOW that she truly loved me, and had for a couple of years now.... But, I also hope that she is able to take care of HERSELF, whatever that means....
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