matt87 Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 How can I be a cool person, without wearing stuff like sunglasses and leather lol
Ross PK Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 I'm not sure how right or wrong I am, but my guess is just being yourself, not giving a crap about about what other people think, and taking a relaxed view in life. And if people don't see the real you as being cool, **** it, who cares? As long as YOU like the way you are. The fact that you want to be cool or are trying to be cool, isn't actually what being cool is.
deux ex machina Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 It is basically an attitude of self-acceptance, and self-reliance. Also, it is about respecting the will of other people, too. You aren't asking anyone for anything. "I am me, and I'm comfortable with it - I also take you at face value and accept that is you. Take me or leave me, I will survive either way."
Author matt87 Posted November 12, 2009 Author Posted November 12, 2009 I'm not sure how right or wrong I am, but my guess is just being yourself, not giving a crap about about what other people think, and taking a relaxed view in life. And if people don't see the real you as being cool, **** it, who cares? As long as YOU like the way you are. The fact that you want to be cool or are trying to be cool, isn't actually what being cool is. true.. ah wells I might as well just be myself
Author matt87 Posted November 12, 2009 Author Posted November 12, 2009 It is basically an attitude of self-acceptance, and self-reliance. Also, it is about respecting the will of other people, too. You aren't asking anyone for anything. "I am me, and I'm comfortable with it - I also take you at face value and accept that is you. Take me or leave me, I will survive either way." good point
Author matt87 Posted November 13, 2009 Author Posted November 13, 2009 Be yourself! Be myself;) , true, cool
Left in a Lurch Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 (edited) 1. No douchebag beard? Check. 2. No long hair styled like a dead muppet on your head? Check. 3. No skull cap? Check. 4. Don't wear sunglasses indoors? Check. 5. No pubic hair patch on your chin? Check. 6. No tight black t-shirt or sweater one size too small? Check. 7. No underwear hanging out of your pants? Check. 8. No oversized sunglasses that cover 1/3 of your entire face? Check. 9. No yellow/feminine looking sunglasses? Check. 10. No blacked out MLB hat turned sideways on your head? Check. 11. Wearing a shirt with less than 3 colors? Check. Sounds pretty cool to me. Edited November 13, 2009 by Chat Room Hero
melodymatters Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 My best friend is a former record producer/musician who owned his own studio. He made Fonzie ( from happy days, too old a reference ?) look like a p*ssy ! Basically, he didn't give a sh*t what anyone thought, sometimes mixed records in his bathrobe. He never got riled, always had a mellow half smile on his face. People would get all upset over stuff, and he would just be like " It's all good sugar". He never bragged on himself, if anything he was self deprecating. He talked about half as much as anyone else in the room : too many times people just babble whatever's on their mind because they are nervous, or perhaps just like to hear themselves talk. If you are genuinely comfortable in your own skin, it will usually show through. And remember : EVERYONE is a douchebag in some way or another, just own your douchiness and somehow it becomes cool !
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