am I a pig if I don't want a woman who has ever been

[betamanlet]

Why should I think that someone who has been with 50+ guys is capable of being faithful?

[JohnP82]

How many times have you been around the block? Is someone to feel special about you?

 

I can count the number of people I've slept with on 1 hand and its been completely by choice. I turned down a very attractive girl this past weekend for a ONS and the same girl again yesterday.

 

I would hope someone would feel special in that I don't have sex with just anyone.

[mem11363]

I started playing with females at 15 - married at 27. About 2 partners a year on average. I had 25 sexual partners during the 12 years before marriage.

 

I have never cheated on my wife. Never will.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Why should I think that someone who has been with 50+ guys is capable of being faithful?

[thegreatmoose]

You should avoid telling how many partners you've had. If you give the "wrong" number you risk losing him/her. This "wrong" number can either be too high or too low. It's not their business anyway.

[TheLoneSock]

I started playing with females at 15 - married at 27. About 2 partners a year on average. I had 25 sexual partners during the 12 years before marriage.

 

I have never cheated on my wife. Never will.

 

This is a good point to make. I started playing with females at 16, not married yet. About 3-4 new sexual partners a year on average since then. At this rate I'll have been with 50+ different women by the time I get married. Yet I have never cheated on a girl I was in a relationship with, nor do I ever plan to. I take pride in my loyalty when I'm with someone.

 

I think faithfulness depends on the individual, and can't be based on how many partners they've had.

[tigressA]

No, you're not a pig. It's a preference. But if you're going to pass up a girl who's been around the block a few times but is otherwise perfectly lovely, then that's on you. I agree with LoneSock--faithfulness depends on the individual, not someone's "number".

[TheLoneSock]

To drive the point home even further, I have a female friend who has cheated on all 3 men she has been in a relationship with, and has only been with 4 guys total sexually. That's a lot of swinging from one branch to the next.

 

She cheated on guy #1 with guy #2, cheated on guy #2 with guy #3, cheated on guy #3 with guy #4, guy #4 never called her again.

[TimH]

As long as the Women hasnt had children I could tell during intercourse if a Women has been around.Very simply there will be more pronounced stretching of the vagina.I'm serious.I would not have a relationship with such a girl just because I believe the chances are increased quite a bit for these girls to cheat or want to end a marriage later.You know not a one Man Women.Just my opinion.

[justforfun]

I started playing with females at 15

 

"playing with females"? I'm assuming we are all adults here. Can we say having sex?

[justforfun]

About 3-4 new sexual partners a year on average since then. At this rate I'll have been with 50+ different women by the time I get married.

 

Wanna make it 51?

[TheLoneSock]

"playing with females"? I'm assuming we are all adults here. Can we say having sex?

 

It might not have been full on sex. And even so, it was more amusing to hear it put that way anyway lol.

 

Wanna make it 51?

 

You offering?

[justforfun]

You offering?

 

Looks like I am

[justforfun]

As long as the Women hasnt had children I could tell during intercourse if a Women has been around.Very simply there will be more pronounced stretching of the vagina.I'm serious.I would not have a relationship with such a girl just because I believe the chances are increased quite a bit for these girls to cheat or want to end a marriage later.You know not a one Man Women.Just my opinion.

 

 

O-M-FRICKING-G

 

ARE YOU SERIOUS! ARE YOU EFFIN SERIOUS???

 

Nah, you're right on the nail there mate. You keep away from those nasty, stretchy ones they might swallow you up whole and who knows what nasties might be up there.

[dreamergrl]

As long as the Women hasnt had children I could tell during intercourse if a Women has been around.Very simply there will be more pronounced stretching of the vagina.I'm serious.I would not have a relationship with such a girl just because I believe the chances are increased quite a bit for these girls to cheat or want to end a marriage later.You know not a one Man Women.Just my opinion.

 

Maybe she had a boyfriend with larger penis then you?

[stillafool]

Maybe she had a boyfriend with larger penis then you?

 

 

:lmao::lmao:or will soon want one with a larger penis.

[stillafool]

This is a good point to make. I started playing with females at 16, not married yet. About 3-4 new sexual partners a year on average since then. At this rate I'll have been with 50+ different women by the time I get married. Yet I have never cheated on a girl I was in a relationship with, nor do I ever plan to. I take pride in my loyalty when I'm with someone.

 

I think faithfulness depends on the individual, and can't be based on how many partners they've had.

 

 

Sounds decent to me. Will this also be a respectable number of partners for your future wife?

[CarrieT]

Why should I think that someone who has been with 50+ guys is capable of being faithful?

 

I've had well over a hundred guys in 25+ years of sexual activity. But -- in my four long-term relationships -- I was always 100% completely faithful. AND, would have been very happy if any one of those four relationships had been life-long.

 

But *I* was the one who was left for another man, or a bottle of alcohol, or another woman.

 

So there are some of us who really like sex and when we are not in relationships will engage in that activity which is fulfilling and satisfying. But it has NO bearing whatsoever on our ability to have solid, intimate, and steadfast relationships. Believe me, I would give up my f**k-buddy tomorrow if a man presented himself as wanting and compatible for marriage. It is that which I desire above all else. And until such a man appears in my life, I'm not about to be a celibate nun.

[betamanlet]

I've had well over a hundred guys in 25+ years of sexual activity. But -- in my four long-term relationships -- I was always 100% completely faithful. AND, would have been very happy if any one of those four relationships had been life-long.

 

But *I* was the one who was left for another man, or a bottle of alcohol, or another woman.

 

So there are some of us who really like sex and when we are not in relationships will engage in that activity which is fulfilling and satisfying. But it has NO bearing whatsoever on our ability to have solid, intimate, and steadfast relationships. Believe me, I would give up my f**k-buddy tomorrow if a man presented himself as wanting and compatible for marriage. It is that which I desire above all else. And until such a man appears in my life, I'm not about to be a celibate nun.

 

100+ in 25 years? holy crap. You have an obvious need for multiple partners and hence why I would think you're incapable of being in a committed relationship. I know nothing about you and have ot believe when you say the reasons for your relationships ending, but the promiscuous women I know make excuses and create reasons to leave relationships to have sex with other guys..

 

You realize when you have sex with someone, you're basically having sex with everyone else they have had sex with, so you've basically had sex with probably thousands of people indirectly..

[justforfun]

 

You realize when you have sex with someone, you're basically having sex with everyone else they have had sex with, so you've basically had sex with probably thousands of people indirectly..

 

Good point. Could make the same argument for not using public transport, elevators, doctor's waiting rooms, libraries. That's some scary *****...time to retreat into my sterile bubble...are you still coming over to share a chlorinated water later?

[Ody]

100+ in 25 years? holy crap. You have an obvious need for multiple partners and hence why I would think you're incapable of being in a committed relationship. I know nothing about you and have ot believe when you say the reasons for your relationships ending, but the promiscuous women I know make excuses and create reasons to leave relationships to have sex with other guys..

 

You realize when you have sex with someone, you're basically having sex with everyone else they have had sex with, so you've basically had sex with probably thousands of people indirectly..

 

You're full of it. You have had five partners but claim to know about all these women who sleep with five men a week. So these women just crawl out of the woodword to share their most intimiate details with an understanding and non judgemental guy like yourself who they aren't even sleeping with? Or maybe you're just seeing this crap scrawled on the bathroom stall, hearing it from your dorm buddies over way too much Natty light and really don't even know what you're talking about. Something tells me you're projecting just a bit. Secretly you're fascinated by it anyway, for all of your pure talk, or else you wouldn't be posting about it on the internet, hoping for affirmation of your judgemental views or resolution of some relationship that didn't work out for you.

 

Grow up, wear condoms, and mind your own business.

[justforfun]

I've had well over a hundred guys in 25+ years of sexual activity.

 

Pffttt...you're still playing catch-up Carrie

[justforfun]

 

Grow up, wear condoms, and mind your own business.

 

You've just about killed the thread now. :D:D

[CarrieT]

You realize when you have sex with someone, you're basically having sex with everyone else they have had sex with, so you've basically had sex with probably thousands of people indirectly..

 

Than I am doing pretty well considering I have NEVER had a disease.

 

100+ in 25 years? holy crap. You have an obvious need for multiple partners and hence why I would think you're incapable of being in a committed relationship. I know nothing about you and have to believe when you say the reasons for your relationships ending, but the promiscuous women I know make excuses and create reasons to leave relationships to have sex with other guys..

 

Exactly. You know nothing about me nor about the women about whom you are making generalizations. For some people, having five sexual partners is a lot. For others, a hundred or so is no big deal. Every person is different in their reasons. You are making assumptions about the "promiscuous women" that you know without really knowing what is going on in their head.

 

Come to terms with that fact and other people's sexuality won't bother you so much.

[sally4sara]

I'm still reeling from the statement that a woman having had a baby makes her incapable of being faithful.

 

I'm going to need to see some of the medical research on that one cuz it sounds to me like some guy thinks pushing a baby out is just sooooo pleasurable we'd never be satisfied with anything smaller than a baby.

 

Oh how, in all our centuries of development is anyone so woefully left behind? We might as well all just stop breeding now!

[justforfun]

Than I am doing pretty well considering I have NEVER had a disease.

 

I have. And not from having multiple partners. I was in a committed relationship. He purported to be too.

 

Funny how things work out. If had only ever had three sexual partners, my first love, the father of my child and my ex-husband in my nearly 25 year sex life I would still have caught a disease.