teanoranges Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Yeah I can see how that might be tough. I think mine did truly love me, but it was lost... Not sure if that's any better LOL! sometimes I remember the good times and think he had to have loved me.. but now I just don't even want to remember them.
Lamak Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Our relationship was fine throughout. The problems were here lack of communication skills and mood swings. Guess you can't change everyone.
BigTenInchRecord Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 (edited) This is long...but it's all relevant. Honestly, I thought things were going better then ever. We'd been apart for the first time (for more then a few days) since we began seeing each other in January because it was summer vacation and we went to the same university...she lived a few hours away. We'd kept strong on our pact to see each other every two weeks, and most of it was on her insistence. We'd only been dating for about 6 months but we never fought or argued, got along great, our time together was always very passionate and fun. We spent tons of time together, played music together, and so much more. She genuinely seemed to love me, and would proclaim so all the time. She claimed next summer she was gonna live in our college town, where I lived, just to be close to me. We didn't make things official til after about 3 months of dating, so it's not like we rushed into things. One week over the summer she went away with family out of the country, and even though she wasn't supposed to, she called me every single night to tell me she loved and missed me. I've never seen a girl as excited to see me too every time we got together. Then the last time we really hung out was fantastic, and she had a 10 day trip to Europe with a Jewish group coming up, then back to school for fall semester. All she talked about was going back to school to be with me, even said she didn't wanna go on her trip. Well she went and I didn't hear from her til the very end, and then only through facebook. She said she loved me, missed me, always thought about me, sorry she hasn't called, basically the works. It sounded like she was her normal self. Well she got back and immediately I could tell she was acting weird. After we talked for half an hour one night where she seemed a little weird (but tired mainly), she didn't answer me the next day and never called back til a few days later. When I did talk to her she was on her way back into town for school, but I could tell things were off. Her priority was always to see me when she got into town, but all of the sudden she put me off for 2 nights in a row and hardly called. She said things were fine she was just feeling weird. I said...we need to talk about it. Before the break we only hung out once in person for half hour before class, and she was like a different person. Second day of classes we finally got to talk because I insisted, and she broke down in tears, said she loved me, and broke up with me. Still never got a valid reason. I think it was someone else, she said it wasn't. Only talked about 5-6 times since, she always says she wants me to be a great friend (which I wouldn't) yet doesn't give a **** about me and never tries to contact me. It's 4 weeks today of no contact, and although she broke my heart, I'm beginning to move on and see that someone who could treat someone who was such a big part of their life like they don't exist isn't someone I want in my life. It also goes to show you never know what the other persons thinking...this isn't the first time I've lost someone on a dime, and I finally felt secure with this girl and then the same thing happened. It'll be a long while til a fully trust any females. Edited November 15, 2009 by BigTenInchRecord
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