Johnny M Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Not everyone was the miracle bra. And considering girls 18-28ish don't need to look younger, why would that be the reason we wear make up? Usually, it's to hide acne and other skin imperfections. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Good luck with that, manlet. Wearing those shoes is sort of like a girl wearing a stuffed bra. Looks good at first, but when it comes off, you are highly disappointed. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Nothing strange about that at all. Just like women, men find height attractive (up to a certain limit though). I mean, why else would women wear high heels?? A man wearing 'lifting shoes' is really no different from a woman wearing high heels. The only difference is that female insecurities are socially acceptable, while male insecurities aren't. That makes sense empirically, but I also dated women taller (5'4"-5'8") and noted similar results. I personally think it had to do with the 'change' in their stature, as well as, in the case of my stbx, that she was doing something for me, as she loathed heels and wore wedges and flats nearly always. I've met plenty of tall women whom I didn't/don't find attractive at all. One of my stbx's girlfriends exemplifies that; 5'9", blonde and a knockout, but blah, nothing. Didn't matter if she put heels on or not. To me, this topic exemplifies a lot of conflicts we discuss here. We get into 'well, women do this and that, so men can too'. Yes, we can, but women are the arbiters of whether that choice is going to fly with them, so choose wisely Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 I could care less what a man wears, as long as he is attractive and presentable. If he wants to cultivate his insecurity and spend time worrying about it (and spending money on it), then that is his business. Just don't suggest I also have the same issues about his body. I can see myself getting angry if he tries to suggest that I have "issues" with the same things he is insecure with about himself. To me, that tells me that he isn't listening when I say "i love you". His insecurities are more important than my love. As I said - he can wear what he wants. Just don't involve me in the insecurity crisis. Link to post Share on other sites
Skump Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Huh, actually, even at 6'1" and change, this product is sort-of compelling to me... I have to confess a curiosity to know what I'd feel like at over six-foot-four! Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Yet it's okay for women to wear padded bras and wear makeup. I get it. How about if you wear a stuffed sock in your crotch ? Would it make you feel any more of a man to look like your hung like a horse ?.. what about when the pants come off and she sees that it was only a stuffed sock. I think some of the men here think it is okay to wear lifts just because a woman wears heels, makeup or a push up bra.. no... It doesn't make a man look sexier to wear lifts.. it makes him look insecure. A woman wears heels to make herself look sexier for her man not increase her height because she is insecure.. She also doesn't hide the fact that she is wearing those heels either. If she stuffs her bra.. yeah she is just an idiot.. but I haven't seen or met a woman who has stuffed her bra past the age of 17. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Theryes more girs like megan out there then you think..I undertsand preference but i never understood womens WORSHIP of height makes no sense to me..Its goofy I can undertand easier the girls who want tall guys over 6 feet and have that fetish to be dominated and tretated like therye 5 year olds and theyre man is daddy all over again..I have more problems with girls whod dismiss a man who a few inches off their height preference.. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 The only difference is that female insecurities are socially acceptable, while male insecurities aren't. So true..Most women are insecure and nuerotic about some part of their looks but god forbid a man has any insecurites that hes not a man and isnt showing confidence which is unsexy to a women.. Its like a women wants a man to have everyhting she doesnt and make up for her negatives and fears.. Like where suppsoed to be unhuman inflappable robots who worry about nothing to make a women feel good Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 So true..Most women are insecure and nuerotic about some part of their looks but god forbid a man has any insecurites that hes not a man and isnt showing confidence which is unsexy to a women.. Its like a women wants a man to have everyhting she doesnt and make up for her negatives and fears.. Like where suppsoed to be unhuman inflappable robots who worry about nothing to make a women feel good I'm not saying he's not a man or lacking confidence. Far from it. What I'm saying is that don't suggest I have the same issues about his body. People are insecure about different things. That is a fact. Seldom can it be changed. Maybe over time. Maybe. I don't have a problem with him being insecure about something. It is actually quite endearing. My problem is his projecting onto me that same insecurity, ie "I'm shy about my height, so she must think I'm too short, and unsexy". I think men and women complement each other and we all have our issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 I can undertand easier the girls who want tall guys over 6 feet and have that fetish to be dominated and tretated like therye 5 year olds and theyre man is daddy all over again. I had no idea that domination in the bedroom was reserved for those 6' or taller. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 I'm not saying he's not a man or lacking confidence. Far from it. What I'm saying is that don't suggest I have the same issues about his body. People are insecure about different things. That is a fact. Seldom can it be changed. Maybe over time. Maybe. I don't have a problem with him being insecure about something. It is actually quite endearing. My problem is his projecting onto me that same insecurity, ie "I'm shy about my height, so she must think I'm too short, and unsexy". I think men and women complement each other and we all have our issues. I agree with you.And i think the op is too extreme and insecure to the point of indanity..I jsut find it funny that women think confidence in a man is so sexy and god forid he lacks it when theyre so insecure themselves.. We are human also we do have fears and insecurities.. Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny M Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 So true..Most women are insecure and nuerotic about some part of their looks but god forbid a man has any insecurites that hes not a man and isnt showing confidence which is unsexy to a women../QUOTE] Do I look fat in that dress? Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 I had no idea that domination in the bedroom was reserved for those 6' or taller. I think its the visual image im talking more then literally or the reality of hte situation.. Just like women say they feel mroe protetced by a taller man..Not that tall=strength and maybe soem of them even actually realize that but the visual look of a tall man gives them that protetced feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 So true..Most women are insecure and nuerotic about some part of their looks but god forbid a man has any insecurites that hes not a man and isnt showing confidence which is unsexy to a women../QUOTE] Do I look fat in that dress? Johnny, if I was 6' tall, I would give you a spanking. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 So true..Most women are insecure and nuerotic about some part of their looks but god forbid a man has any insecurites that hes not a man and isnt showing confidence which is unsexy to a women../QUOTE] Do I look fat in that dress? Though im torn allot of times wheter its inescurity or narcisism and womens constant need of compliments.. Plus most attratcive or semi twomen know they are good looking or somewhat attractive i think it has more to do with need of compliments and maybe seeing some women they think looks better the them and they need to try to one up that women.. Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Though im torn allot of times wheter its inescurity or narcisism and womens constant need of compliments.. Plus most attratcive or semi twomen know they are good looking or somewhat attractive i think it has more to do with need of compliments and maybe seeing some women they think looks better the them and they need to try to one up that women.. What do you mean? Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny M Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Johnny, if I was 6' tall, I would give you a spanking. I don't think that would work....I'm 6'2 (6'5 if I get myself these manlet shoes ) Link to post Share on other sites
Author betamanlet Posted November 12, 2009 Author Share Posted November 12, 2009 Good luck with that, manlet. Wearing those shoes is sort of like a girl wearing a stuffed bra. Looks good at first, but when it comes off, you are highly disappointed. I don't hold against people what they have no control over. Link to post Share on other sites
Author betamanlet Posted November 12, 2009 Author Share Posted November 12, 2009 So true..Most women are insecure and nuerotic about some part of their looks but god forbid a man has any insecurites that hes not a man and isnt showing confidence which is unsexy to a women.. Its like a women wants a man to have everyhting she doesnt and make up for her negatives and fears.. Like where suppsoed to be unhuman inflappable robots who worry about nothing to make a women feel good Women are repulsed by ANYTHING that reminds them of themselves. They all have low self esteem, and insecurities, about anything, reminds them of themselves, and completely turns them off. Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 I don't think that would work....I'm 6'2 (6'5 if I get myself these manlet shoes ) Your naivete is charming. Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Women are repulsed by ANYTHING that reminds them of themselves. They all have low self esteem, and insecurities, about anything, reminds them of themselves, and completely turns them off. Maybe. I don't know. I just think that once a woman loves a man, he could be in a wheelchair and it doesn't matter. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 Though im torn allot of times wheter its inescurity or narcisism and womens constant need of compliments.. Plus most attratcive or semi twomen know they are good looking or somewhat attractive i think it has more to do with need of compliments and maybe seeing some women they think looks better the them and they need to try to one up that women.. What do you mean? I think when a women complains that a part of her doesnt look good in front men its because she wants a compliment not that she think shes not attractive or that the wrinkle on the left part of her forehead is really that big a deal Link to post Share on other sites
Author betamanlet Posted November 12, 2009 Author Share Posted November 12, 2009 Maybe. I don't know. I just think that once a woman loves a man, he could be in a wheelchair and it doesn't matter. I suppose that explains the 50% divorce rate? Link to post Share on other sites
Boundary Problem Posted November 12, 2009 Share Posted November 12, 2009 I suppose that explains the 50% divorce rate? No. If I loved a guy and he loved me back, and we treated each other properly, the wheelchair wouldn't even be an issue for me. In fact - I DID date a guy in a wheelchair for months. He was recovering from a really bad motorcycle accident. He was 98 pounds at one point. Didn't matter to me. He was worth it (or so I thought at the time). Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted November 13, 2009 Share Posted November 13, 2009 I don't hold against people what they have no control over. Yes but you're trying deception which is the same as lying. If you are not 6'1" then wearing 3" risers being 5'10" is akin to lying. If people don't accept you for who you are, TO HECK WITH THEM! You don't need them in your life. The only person who needs to love and accept you is yourself. Once you learn to do that, you'll build confidence. And confidence (above all, and not arrogance) is what is extremely attractive to women. Link to post Share on other sites
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