SValentine Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 When my friends told me to be aware of my ex, i never listened and therefore i guess i set myself up for this disappointment. Well the story is we had a major fall out for the last 8 months but recently we settled our issue and became friends again. But the most annoying part just happened today. Yesterday she asked me out to catch a movie that was showing this evening so i agreed. However today when i texted her, she didn't reply. So i decided to call her, and it so happened she was out with her boyfriend. When i asked if she was still meeting me she said oh, i'm meeting my friends later so i can't. I thought to myself, Wtf? Why did you ask me out then? And it really hurt because i'm not over her but she doesn't know it, so she probably thinks i only see her as a friend and its not much of a big deal. I don't know what to do. It hurts, but i guess i deserve it.
stace79 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Well honestly, I wouldn't want a friend who treated me this way, much less a boyfriend. I mean, relationships sometimes come and go but friendship should be pretty consistent -- she asked you to go see a movie, but then decided she would break those plans without even letting you know? Not the type of friend OR girlfriend you should want... you deserve better treatment than that.
USMCHokie Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 This is why you can't be friends with an ex that you are still emotionally attached to...if it was a buddy, you'd probably say, that's cool, maybe next time...or you wouldn't care... If something like this hurts, then you're not ready for friendship with her yet...if ever...
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