Thebob Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 I thought it was, but now I realize that I was played, It was one of those to good to be true moments in my life when everything was perfect, then she left and everything fell down the hill. I really wish this girl was honest to me from the get-go, and not treat me the way she did. I hope she doesn't hurt anyone else like she hurt me. We'll see with her new boyfriend who she just started seeing this week after I just broke up with her 2 months ago. Like I honestly cant think of anything that I did wrong with this girl, I guess my best isn't enough for her. I mean i did everything by the book, remember what she wore at the date, remember to tell her how gorgeous she is, or compliment her hair when she changes it, and describe different things about her that you noticed. I did all of that, not one fight we had and it still wasn't good enough. I hope this new guy can provide it for her. He can deal with her immature ass. I guess I'll have to think negatively about this girl to help ease the shock out of my system. -Like she was not good in bed -daddy's little princess -whines when nothin goes her way -obsessed with sex but never admitted it -messes with your mind, such as crying before she left that she is going to miss me sooooo much, and she will prolly end up being with me when she gets back from school. good thing I look 20X more fly than her new boyfriend and hope he can give her the whole world that I couldn't provide but tried. So we'll see, I think girls are just confused in general especially when they are younger and goin through a sex phase. Thebob
leap83 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 That last part made me laugh a bit - about girls being confused. Haha. Yeah. Some are. Others kind of fly over it and become mature over night. Let me spill it for you - maybe you weren't too dramatic for her; maybe you weren't a player; maybe you didn't do anything to hurt her. Girls like that tend to look for those types of men, because they thrive on drama. As soon as there is no drama, they leave and think you're not good enough for them. So, hopefully this guy hurts her the way you never did. And hopefully, she eventually, learns her lesson.
Meaplus3 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Hey Bob! Don't beat yurself over this girl. Lot's of people get played at one point in time. and while it suck's it not the end of the world. Your better off knowing now that this girl was not the right one for you. So, do your best to forget about her and move forward. Best of luck. Mea:)
jlr Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 My ex is very similar. And I think leap hit it on the head with this: Girls like that tend to look for those types of men, because they thrive on drama. As soon as there is no drama, they leave and think you're not good enough for them.
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 TheBob, I think you sound like a great guy and I just know you will be fine. I've been following your threads. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, much as we like to think it was when we dont have it anymore. As far as being played....I was also played big time. I still cant believe I fell for it but, it happens. Another life lesson learned. Maybe we all need to experience this once? Now its behind us and it will make us stronger if we allow it. There are nice women out there who are not players. I hear there are even nice men out there also, *chuckle* though not as many
Author Thebob Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 thanks all, I think I saw the signs when we were dating, but I was so in to her at the time that I didn't take them in to consideration cause I always thought that she would come around. Well sh*t I was wrong =)... wouldn't be the first time. Thanks all! appreciate it especially you meap! Thebob
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