carrie3107 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Hi I found loveshack about 18months when i had just split up with my then partner". At the time I didn't think I would get over it. Just want people to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and im happy with my life. Had laser treatment on my eyes (ouch) and started to re-live single life!!!! (which is strange at first but you do get use to it) and started having fun again the depression lifts and u start to live again. Met new people but didnt rush into anything emotional or physical, wanted to be happy with myself first before being happy with another man. It had been 5 yrs since I went on first date with the ex, but after all this time I went on my first date (last week) with a new man, and its been very good, so far. Not going to rush into anything yet (been down that road before). My new saying when im drunk and start talking about the past is, alcohol, emotion and faded memories. Thank you for being there when i needed somewhere to go to talk.
nobleguy Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 I think it's nice to hear people coming out the other end of this kind of thing. I thought as this is my second marriage (married very young first time) that I would get over it much quicker (thicker skin maybe) but it's been horrendous. I guess if you love someone that leaves it just hurts no matter if it's happened before. Personally I can't wait for March/April and the spring because I think I'll be making serious progress at that point and the sun will be coming out again. Good for you
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