bede86 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 long story short. Met this girl through Political affilations, we are in the same party and Faction together etc. After hearing that she broke up with her boyfriend I decided to ask her to a Ball that everyone from my Faction basically was going to. She said yes but she would only go out of friendship...Which I thought was fine (yeh im a fking idiot). Anyway we had dinner before the Ball, once after, hung out a couple of times etc...And I really really like her. - After the ball she cancelled dinner on me once and said at the end of the msg "I'm sure you'll find someone else to have a non.date with" I thought she was cut at me so I didn't reply and was a little vague with her when I bumped into her later that day, I guess I kinda showed I was annoyed.... then I got a text msg later that day basically saying why are u angry at me, I didn't wanna cancel just important stuff came up. - I replied saying hey no worries, I just had a rough day, and I finished it by saying "Your right I could have Non.Dates with others but i'd rather have one with you" - Got a great reply after setting a date for our next non.date...then I got a phone call the next day she was being super flirty and nice. - Spoke a couple of times online and once on the phone in a week, had our date last night and same again, super flirty I actually figured it might end in a kiss this time...when i dropped her back to her car I got a kiss on the cheak and boy was she outa my car fast lol. - Quite a few people who see us together always tell me that we look great together etc...to which I reply we are just friends. Now Don't get me wrong, while I like her I dont msg too often and don't talk to her heaps if anything I'm hiding how I feel pretty well. I thought my msg after she cancelled dinner that time (saying I only wanted non dates with her etc) and then her reply and call the next day was an indicator she might like me. -She came out of a long term relationship where the guy wanted to marry her and have kids so she freaked shes only 21, but he was 26, I'm 23. She has said she likes older men too me before etc and while shes made it clear we are friends her actions speak different. - I leave for Europe this sunday for 30 days, so i was either thinking of A. Telling her how I feel before I leave. b. Asking her if when I get back she'd wanna have an actual date with me. C. asking her out when I get back. yeh FML.
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