Thebob Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Broken up for 2 months, and she is official with another man already. When she told me she didn't want a boyfriend for a really really long time cause she wanted to live the single life. that **** is great. Karma I hope gets this girl so she can stop being a immature hoe. thebob
Bulldozed Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 TB - at least she didn't hook up her one her best-friends "ex-husbands" 3 wks after telling you she wanted the two of you to take a break for a while and that she didn't want to break up? Women are truly wily creatures....what's the line, anything that bleeds for 7 days and still doesn't die, can never be trusted?
fofiffs Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Thats what they all say..They're just lost and confused not knowing what they want. I doubt it'll last though. My ex was the same way. Since our break up about 9 months ago she's had 4 BFs and is now getting married in two months. Nows thats a Hoe..lol..I just laugh about it now. I feel sorry for the guy she's marrying. lol
twinklecat Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Hey it's not always women ya know! Try finding out that your ex has been with someone else who happens to be one of your best friends of 11 years, what's even more great is that she's been living in the same house as me and the ex for the past 9 months, oh and I work with her too. That's is pretty disgusting behaviour right there and he's a man, mind you disgusting behaviour on her part too, but he's chased her!
Odyssey Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 (edited) Look at it this way Thebob, she's not your f**king problem any more. Edited November 11, 2009 by Odyssey
USMCHokie Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Mine said the same exact thing...and did the same exact thing...at the same exact time... I think it's a matter of experiencing that "newness" that comes with meeting someone new and starting to date them...and it could also be a way to avoid coping with loss...you know the fastest way to get over someone is to find someone new... Besides, if she's living it up as a single person, she's bound to meet new people and chances are, as a girl, guys will be swarming all over her... Are they happy with these new people...? Maybe...at least they'll try to convince themselves they are in order to distance themselves even more from their ex...and to convince themselves they made the right choice even if they didn't...do they live happily ever after...? Generally not...but the one thing I learned through my coping is that it's her life to live...not yours to oversee or control or worry about...you worry about you... I made the mistake of trying to force things to happen just so I could be at the same place as she was 2 months after the breakup...all moved on and seemingly "happy"...and it just blew up in my face and made me hate the dating game that much more...now I truly understand that I'm not ready for someone new yet...and I don't let what she does in her life affect what I do in mine... Girls, and I guess guys for that matter, will say they "aren't ready to date for a long time" so they can shift the "blame" for the end of the relationship to themselves...it's a way of easing the blow to the dumpee...makes the dumper feel better about leaving since they're the ones "at fault," not the dumpee...
sean1970 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Mine had a match.com profile a week later... When I confronted her with it, "Im not looking for anything serious... Just seeing what is out there..." Right....
sean1970 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Look at it this way Thebob, she's not your f**king problem any more. My sister (best friend) would say the same thing... My ex would cry at the drop of a hat (to stop arguments she was not doing well in)... My sister said after the breakup, "Think how much you will save on tissues."
Author Thebob Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 I just find it funny cause she was making fun of this guy all the time when we were dating. How he was horrible at hooking up, how she just wanted to be friends with him. Then I saw a new picture of the guy and I am 20X more fly than he ever will be. I honestly just believe that she did this due to the fact that she isn't a complete slut, but wants a F-Buddy for the whole year until she heads back down to her hometown state because this girl was a freak in the bedroom and needed someone to care for her in general. She prolly just wants the attention and needed someone to provide the sexual desire for her. She is prolly using this guy in my opinion and I hope I am wrong. I feel like I kinda was played, by her saying that she didn't want another LDR with me then she has a new Bf within 2 months. Whats funny about this is that when summer comes around she is goin to have a 3.5 month LDR with her current BF. Oh well im just ranting cause I was lied to multiple times by this girl, and as the saying goes what comes around goes around.
USMCHokie Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 She prolly just wants the attention... Yep. Just filling in the hole with whatever's available...
Author Thebob Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 Yep. Just filling in the hole with whatever's available... We'll see I have no idea, I think she just wants a dick to f*ck.... and she didn't want to come out on me as the whore she actually is. I recently have noticed now that she has done it with 4 people within 7 months...... god I can't believe I lost my V-card to this girl, what is wrong with me hahahahahaha....
Bulldozed Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Hey it's not always women ya know! Try finding out that your ex has been with someone else who happens to be one of your best friends of 11 years, what's even more great is that she's been living in the same house as me and the ex for the past 9 months, oh and I work with her too. That's is pretty disgusting behaviour right there and he's a man, mind you disgusting behaviour on her part too, but he's chased her! It definitely goes both ways. What I can't seem to wrap my arms around is how in the hell someone would discard a 20 yrs friendship (maid of honor in their wedding) on a chance relationship ship with a guy who drove this woman away. She never cared to even find out from her friend what happened, but instead she provided a shoulder for her poor husband to cry on....I heard all about it...we all use to hang out with them now and again...
HeavenOrHell Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Thanks for that! Obviously WOMEN ARE NOT ALL THE SAME!! I could say blokes suck cos I've been dumped in what I thought was a special relationship, but I'm not going to say all men are emotional retards I am trustworthy but my ex clearly turned out to not be. TB - at least she didn't hook up her one her best-friends "ex-husbands" 3 wks after telling you she wanted the two of you to take a break for a while and that she didn't want to break up? Women are truly wily creatures....what's the line, anything that bleeds for 7 days and still doesn't die, can never be trusted?
HeavenOrHell Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 My ex (male) was confused too and didn't know what he wanted Thats what they all say..They're just lost and confused not knowing what they want. I doubt it'll last though. My ex was the same way. Since our break up about 9 months ago she's had 4 BFs and is now getting married in two months. Nows thats a Hoe..lol..I just laugh about it now. I feel sorry for the guy she's marrying. lol
novack Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 MAN THIS IS exactly i mean exactly what i heard..... i got the need to find myself bull****, need to stand up on my own 2 feet... be without a relationship in college.. ITS CALLED HORSE CRAP.... my ex started fooling around with some guy a couple of days later... not because she wanted to be a slut..but same thing a monster in the sack and needed a dick to fill her hole... honestly.. i don't feel good about myself either as i'm only 2 months out.. but there is an old song called i use to work in chicago.. At the end of the tune (which you should think every day is) I DONT WORK THERE ANYMORE... you already deposited all your income Now she can find some other poor f uck.. to fool with high bank fees...
Author Thebob Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 Girls that are obsessed with the dick will get the dick whenever they want. That is why it's so easy for girls in a sense to get laid when they want to. It's a proven fact that guys have it tougher. Guys are more in shock when a girl wants to have sex right away with them because to us that is a total miracle. Thebob
nobleguy Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Broken up for 2 months, and she is official with another man already. When she told me she didn't want a boyfriend for a really really long time cause she wanted to live the single life. that **** is great. Karma I hope gets this girl so she can stop being a immature hoe. thebob Yep. Same here. All rubbish to make herself and you feel better. The truth is dumper has probably mentally left a long time before physically leaving, so to the dumpee it seems horribly quick to be with someone else. It's a tough one to accept. I'm doing it right now but weirdly in some ways it has shown me I need to move on rather than hope that she never went with anyone else and changed her mind about leaving. Our sex life and being faithful was sacred to me (I'm not religious) and that's been broken for good. Now that's gone I have no desire for her to come back... P.S. Still hurts like hell
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