JolliX Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 First of all, I'm a little ashamed that I lost my temper, it's something I try better to control. So I'll do a brief overview on what happened. Ex breaks up with me over text, we are ass hats to each other over it, supposed to trade stuff back at a class we have together, she doesn't take time to follow through with trade, so I leave her stuff by her car and go home. Week later she texts me "I still have your stuff, I'd like X back too". Ok, we will trade at the class we have together this week was the agreement. She apologizes for not having traded the week before. She doesn't even show up to the class, so still no trade. I contact her to finalize trade. She wants to just trade back the next class (I see a damned pattern so no). I give her options. She can pick her stuff up from my roommate and give my stuff to him, or my roommate will leave it on her doorstep and I don't even want my stuff back. She goes off how I "WILL NOT" leave her stuff on a doorstep, and she doesn't have time to stop by to trade. To hell with it, doorstep it is I tell her, b/c I'm sick of having to deal with her. She retorts back, "Dude, we still will see each other in class.", but I don't care, after stuff is traded back, there is no more interaction needed, I can ignore her and go on my way. She gets pissy, and I go off telling her that her text message to break up was a ****ty thing to do, but I was immature also about it so let's get this trade F*$&ing over! Then last thing I send her was something I knew would piss her off so that she wouldn't talk to me again. I accused her of sleeping with her ex (who she went on a 2 week vacation with while we were dating, and who she moved in with as a roommate while we were dating... so she very well might have). No reply back, servence of communication is a success. But I still feel like an ass for losing my temper and saying that stuff. And I'm sure I will now be the 'psycho' according to her and her friends. But at least now I can get my NC and start to move on with my life. I'm just so pissed off right now, and hurt, and angry, and frustrated!
Lamak Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Honestly, I have to say you did the right thing. She sounds like the type of person who likes to play games. Atleast that's over.
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