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hopeful1980 Established Member

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I called my husband and asked him out on a date. He said he'd like to go. I made reservations for a nice restuarant on Sunday and got a baby sitter.

 

What should I do? I guess flowers and candy aren't in order. I don't know how to romance a man.

 

How would you like your wife to romance you? If she asked you out on a date, what would be your ideal experience?

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Wear a coat and precious little underneath it....

Play footsie under the table......

Grab a cab, and grab his crotch in it....

 

feed him your food, and get him to feed you.

Eat seductively....

 

Then, book a motel room, and use it.

 

Ask the babysitter if she can stay the night, too..... that would help. ;)

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Okay, wow.... I'm not a guy but even I got turned on by that suggestion.

 

Hopeful, what kind of things does your H like? Would he be interested in you spicing things up like this? Or would he be too shocked/self-conscious to enjoy himself?

 

Really think about what he enjoys.... what he has been asking for. What might surprise him. Let us know what you come up with!

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My beautiful wife in a nice new form fitting short black dress.

Reservations for dinner at a nice fancy upscale resturant.

Then retire to our jacuzzi suite for a wonder evening of just her and I.

 

I'm not waiting for her, booking it right now.

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Okay, wow.... I'm not a guy but even I got turned on by that suggestion.

 

Hopeful, what kind of things does your H like? Would he be interested in you spicing things up like this? Or would he be too shocked/self-conscious to enjoy himself?

 

Really think about what he enjoys.... what he has been asking for. What might surprise him. Let us know what you come up with!

 

This is a tough one for me. I guess I haven't been paying enough attention.

 

When we first got married, I set up a really romantic dinner for him. I timed the lights and music to when I knew he'd be coming home. I made his favorite meal and dressed really sexy. I acted as if he was self-conscious like you said. He never mentioned it until years later he brought it up as something he remembered fondly. I was shocked! At the time I thought he thought I was being a silly newlywed wife, but he actually liked it.

 

He really doesn't ask for anything. When I ask him what he wants, he says nothing. I've got one idea running around in my head. What if I bought a kama sutra like book and put tabs on the positions I wanted to try and then gave it to him at dinner or before? I think he'd like that, but I'm not sure.

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My beautiful wife in a nice new form fitting short black dress.

Reservations for dinner at a nice fancy upscale resturant.

Then retire to our jacuzzi suite for a wonder evening of just her and I.

 

I'm not waiting for her, booking it right now.

 

Good ideas! I plan on dressing up and I'm taking him to a really fancy place. I'm sure he's going to like it. I just need ideas on what else I can do to make him feel special.

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Wear a coat and precious little underneath it....

Play footsie under the table......

Grab a cab, and grab his crotch in it....

 

feed him your food, and get him to feed you.

Eat seductively....

 

Then, book a motel room, and use it.

 

Ask the babysitter if she can stay the night, too..... that would help. ;)

 

Okay, I don't have a coat long enough to wear little underneath, but I can wear a dress and no panties. Maybe I'll whisper to him while we're eating that I'm not wearing any.

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Not a guy - But Hopeful, Thanks for this thread.:D

 

It's refreshing for a change to see a post like this.

I'll keep watching for ideas. ;)

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Okay, I don't have a coat long enough to wear little underneath, but I can wear a dress and no panties. Maybe I'll whisper to him while we're eating that I'm not wearing any.

 

Hopeful, I'm excited for you to try this. Your H and my H sound very similar. More reserved. My H isn't very demonstrative and keeps his cards pretty close to his chest.

 

There's always that fine line between what they find sexy and what they might think is pushing the envelope I suppose. I guess all we can do is try and hope that they love us for putting ourselves out there!

 

I wish more men would respond as to what they would like. This thread can be very educational! :)

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Not a guy - But Hopeful, Thanks for this thread.:D

 

It's refreshing for a change to see a post like this.

I'll keep watching for ideas. ;)

 

Let me tell you, joining LS has been a real eye opener on how fast marriages can go down. I'm really working on keeping mine on the right track.

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Hopeful, I'm excited for you to try this. Your H and my H sound very similar. More reserved. My H isn't very demonstrative and keeps his cards pretty close to his chest.

 

There's always that fine line between what they find sexy and what they might think is pushing the envelope I suppose. I guess all we can do is try and hope that they love us for putting ourselves out there!

 

I wish more men would respond as to what they would like. This thread can be very educational! :)

 

Me too! That's why I posted it.

 

My husband actually did tell me that he doesn't care what I do. It really is the thought that counts with him. The fact that I thought specifically about him is more important to him that what I give him. He likes the fact that I care enough to keep trying.

 

I'm just trying to get a feel for what men think is romantic.

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The perfect date for me would be a total surprise where she completely took care of everything involved - then told me about 3 weeks in advance that she has planned a suprise that involved me coming home early from work that night, but gave no other information. Just sitting around knowing that someone has planned something for me - just to make me happy - and then teases me by not letting me know what it is (no matter how much I beg) is the best date she could ever give me.

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Me too! That's why I posted it.

 

My husband actually did tell me that he doesn't care what I do. It really is the thought that counts with him. The fact that I thought specifically about him is more important to him that what I give him. He likes the fact that I care enough to keep trying.

 

I'm just trying to get a feel for what men think is romantic.

 

and special dates.... None (males) I can think of care about a gift.... What they want is thought and something personal. Heck most men very simply think about sex on these days.... So if your husband is anything like most red-blooded males, I'd wear something very sexy, buy a little toy, slip him a blue pill, warn him that he better get a good night sleep the night before and tell him the babysitter is staying the evening and get a hotel room.....:lmao:

 

You see men think much different, they will agonize over the right gift, make sure they are attentive, that the restaurant is one their wife wants to go to, not necessarily one they go to. A man will forgo the sporting event that night, and will think about what will make the spouse/gf at ease.

 

A man just fantasizes what a woman will do to him......;)

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I'm not a guy either, but in talking to some of my girlfriends, I've learned that almost every guy wants to photograph his wife/gf nude. So, if your H is one of those guys, rent photography equipment, get a lavish hotel room and let loose!

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During dinner we each get to share some fantasies - the fun thing is that some of them have to be sexual and the others are just a life thing - like I wish I owned a private island - or I wish I was captain of a deep sea fishing boat.

 

After dinner - a nice walk - holding hands talking

 

At home a nice full body massage

 

And of course the grand finale.... :)

 

 

 

I called my husband and asked him out on a date. He said he'd like to go. I made reservations for a nice restuarant on Sunday and got a baby sitter.

 

What should I do? I guess flowers and candy aren't in order. I don't know how to romance a man.

 

How would you like your wife to romance you? If she asked you out on a date, what would be your ideal experience?

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Mem that is a fantastic I idea. I've never asked him what his fantasies are before. I think it will be a good conversation.

 

I'm so glad I made the reservations and this post because he really pissed me off this week and now I feel pressure to find a better attitude so we can enjoy ourselves on Sunday. :p

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You are a cool wife. I hope he realizes that.

 

 

Mem that is a fantastic I idea. I've never asked him what his fantasies are before. I think it will be a good conversation.

 

I'm so glad I made the reservations and this post because he really pissed me off this week and now I feel pressure to find a better attitude so we can enjoy ourselves on Sunday. :p

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No sooner did I open this post, I got a text from him that reads:

 

You're a wonderful wife and I am very blessed and lucky

 

No lie. :)

 

You are a cool wife. I hope he realizes that.
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Can you believe my parents were at the restaurant when we got there!?! They asked us to join them and my husband said yes. *sigh*

 

I told him we didn't have to sit with them if he didn't want to, but he said it was okay he didn't mind.

 

So I will have to try again. :)

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That the two of you missed out on a golden opportunity to enhance your parents appetites by sharing your over the top sexual fantasies during dinner?

 

:) :) :)

 

 

 

 

Can you believe my parents were at the restaurant when we got there!?! They asked us to join them and my husband said yes. *sigh*

 

I told him we didn't have to sit with them if he didn't want to, but he said it was okay he didn't mind.

 

So I will have to try again. :)

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That the two of you missed out on a golden opportunity to enhance your parents appetites by sharing your over the top sexual fantasies during dinner?

 

:) :) :)

 

You made me laugh out loud at my desk. :laugh:

 

I did at one point text him that I wasn't wearing any underwear. He just looked at me like, "What has gotten into you!" LOL!

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This thread is very, very cool.

 

In fact, I think I'm getting an inspiration. Or something.

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