knuckles Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I have a friend that's on her pills sometimes due to some weird disgnosis. Borderline something, don't know what that really is. Anyways her boyfriend has cheated on her several times that me and these other people know of. I know the right thing to do is telling but what if she either hurts herself or goes to the extreme of committing suicide. She has tried to kill herself on two different occasions when she was way younger and at times would cut herself. That's what we're concern about. She is pretty much in love with her boyfriend. What should be done here? What would anyone do if you have a friend or family member getting cheated on but if you told them about it, they might be suicidal or hurt themselves again just like in the past.
A O Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 Assuming that your information is rock solid, if it were my friend I'd tell her. I'd also be prepared for the possible consequences, and be ready to do what it takes to help my friend through this period. That's about all I could do. Your situation is tough though and I'm not qualified to give you anything but an opinion. Very best of luck. .
Author knuckles Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 I do want to tell her what kind of ass she's dating as soon as possible but I'm not sure how she might take it. It might bring back those moments of when she was younger and hurting herself since she's still on her pills.
A O Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 It might bring back those moments of when she was younger and hurting herself since she's still on her pills. Of course, that's a risk you have to take, but only if the support is there to help your friend through it. .
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