Lost&Found Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 Sorry to start another thread about my situation, but it seems to keep changing (doesn't it always). To sum up, GF broke up with me because I didn't do enough to show her I loved her. She wanted to start over and begin just dating, but not as GF/BF. I didn't want to do this so we ended up completely breaking up, since that what it was after all. I've been able to go NC a few days, then we will talk a bit, sometimes its good, sometimes its bad. Its been a week and a couple days since the break, she had told me she had been asked out on a date and had accepted (OUCH!), she went on it Saturday night, I never asked about it. I sent her a text today "Does it feel right that we should drift apart and forget one another?" She replied "I don't know I'm a little confused lately But I had fun on my date and we are going out again I think". So she's confused? About what? Now I am confused myself! I didn't text anything back. I really have nothing more to say to her at this point. Any ideas?
t0ri Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 She's seeing other people already. Personally, that quote from her sounds just like, "I'm dating other people, and enjoying it. But I'm going to say I'm confused about your question so you can be hanging by my thread in case I want you as a backup/decide to come back." Go NC, and stay there! Let her clear up her own "confusion," while you work on beginning to heal.
boldjack Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 Dude, she has moved past you and is trying to let you down easy. You must NC her permanently, and get on with your own life.
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