ItsAllGoodAgain Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 I've posted my story here about a week ago under "Happy Birthday" so I'm not going to go into too much detail. Short version is gf needed space to think about where she was. A few days later I find out her babys daddy re-entered the picture and the 2 of them were talking again. I was a rebound but the 2 of us grew very close. We started dating only 3 months after babys daddy left them saying I don't love you and can't be with you. Her and I were together for 5 months with her relocating up here in order to be closer to me. We became extremely close during this time. A few months after is when she began questioning. We've had NC for about a month. She did drunk dial once and send a forwarding email my way. I did send her a Happy birthday wish via email last week with no response of course. Well, I just heard form a friend of a friend that she is really going through a tough time right now. I'm not sure what but she is really down and out. The friend seems to think that it has something to do with the father as well as issues with her friends. One of her friends since childhood has dropped her. Over what I'm not sure. My friend believes its over her decision to try and reconcile with her childs father and the the ex and her best friend really had thier outs over it. I still care deeply for her. Now I'm just worried about her. I hope she doesn't feel alone. I hope she's able to pull through this like I know she's capable of. I also know that this isn't my problem. If I were to contact her I would probably make things worse for her. I just want to know that she's ok.
Author ItsAllGoodAgain Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 I believe I'm doombed at this no contact!!! I ended up sending her a message: "To be strong is part of your eternal divinity. Being strong is a natural state of mankind and a prerequisite if you wish to be free and happy." Just be strong and don't give up. Know that there are people who care and love you. I really hope all is well. I can't even follow these words at this point. Do I look like a fool or what? I feel like one at times.
Exit Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 Yeah I definitely think you need to apply that quote to yourself a little bit lol. She ditched you and got herself into whatever mess she is in, it's not your responsibility to make her feel better. It's great that you care about her that much, but don't give her the satisfaction that you're waiting for her to come back. Make it appear that you are moving on and she will have to come to the realization that she is losing a good thing.
Recommended Posts