Author bac Posted November 10, 2009 Author Share Posted November 10, 2009 Her eyes spin around and smoke comes out her ears. thank you. That was good one. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 thank you. That was good one. Haha.. I do all that plus I squirt like a fountain... Link to post Share on other sites
Krytie TV Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 can't guys feel it when a wonam orgasms? Actually, I very rarely feel my fiancee's orgasms. I know they are there by other bodily signs but no, hardly ever feel the contractions or other internal signs. Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 most women want to be grabbed, pulled, and some even lightly choked. Most women? I think that is a bit of an exaggeration. Link to post Share on other sites
jw90063 Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 When a man makes a female orgasm doing oral sex for her. I was referring to vaginal sex. I think its obvious a male wouldn't always know if giving oral sex. I still don't understand how a man doesn't ALWAYS feel it during vaginal sex. From my understanding, there is always a muscle contraction. If not, that's weird if you ask me. Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Pupil dilation is the only non-voluntary orgasm response I know of that can't be faked. But are you really going be focused on that while you're having sex? If so, she probably isn't enjoying the sex enough to orgasm because you're focusing so much on her pupils rather than her pleasure. Link to post Share on other sites
Krytie TV Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 I am relieved....I wouldn't want any guy to be so stupid as to think that they can tell a fake from a real one.... And I wouldn't want any woman so dumb to actually fake orgasms. All that does is tell the guy that he's doing fine and doesn't need to change anything. Who wins? The guy, because he gets off and thinks she did too. Who loses? Yeppers, the faker because she's the one left frustrated from lying. Link to post Share on other sites
HarmonyHope Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Do you honestly believe that I do believe? I once heard but its probably a hoax that woman can have orgasm when she orally pleasures her man and doesnt stop for two minutes after he had his orgasm. Girls maybe it is worth a try. Yeah, that's a hoax. I generally continue very gently for several minutes afterwards and I can't say that specific tactic is anything special. I like the same being done to me, I guess it just feels like a nice easing down.... Link to post Share on other sites
HarmonyHope Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 And I wouldn't want any woman so dumb to actually fake orgasms. All that does is tell the guy that he's doing fine and doesn't need to change anything. Who wins? The guy, because he gets off and thinks she did too. Who loses? Yeppers, the faker because she's the one left frustrated from lying. Sometimes that's the point. For instance- I hated having sex with my now xH. Any deviation from the normal routine wouldn't make it any better for me and would only lengthen the process, so it was in my interest to get it over with as quickly as possible. I did that for a few years before we divorced. (For completely unrelated reasons). I would never do that again. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 And I wouldn't want any woman so dumb to actually fake orgasms. All that does is tell the guy that he's doing fine and doesn't need to change anything. Who wins? The guy, because he gets off and thinks she did too. Who loses? Yeppers, the faker because she's the one left frustrated from lying. I understand what you're saying and I agree.. BUT for a large percentage of women who have never and WILL NEVER orgasm with penetration.. then maybe... just maybe, for the sake of their own 'happiness' and 'sanity' it is better to make the H believes that they cum that way... to prevent the big arguments...etc... especially if the woman is not too keen on the sex thing... and if she knows her H will 'question' his performance.. Link to post Share on other sites
boldjack Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 The more intimate your connection with your partner, the easier it will be to tell. There is no quick, handy-dandy monitor to plug into the bed, or flashing lights that will tell you if you score. Be attuned to her body. Link to post Share on other sites
Krytie TV Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 The more intimate your connection with your partner, the easier it will be to tell. There is no quick, handy-dandy monitor to plug into the bed, or flashing lights that will tell you if you score. Be attuned to her body. That's the key. As I say, I cannot physical tell by the contractions, but we are so emotionally connected that I have several other indicators that signal it. Know your partner's body as well as you know your own and you're off and running. Link to post Share on other sites
65tr6 Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 (edited) can't guys feel it when a wonam orgasms? I felt it all the time. I thought fake orgasms was a myth until I read/heard so many women claiming to fake orgasms. Also want to add...It also depends a lot on if the man is interested in making the woman orgasm. Some men may not care. Edited November 10, 2009 by 65tr6 Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 It will sound like she's in pain. She might even punch you. Link to post Share on other sites
lurker219 Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm? 1. Do you just ask her if she had it? Then, if she said 'yes', you would be satisfied. Do you look for some special physical signs such as her loud sounds or her special body movements or her words 'I am coming' or smth else? 2. How do you know that your partner had multiple orgasms? What are signs of it? Can you describe it? How common it is in your experience? 3. How does a woman behave just after she had an orgasm? 4. Do you think that it is normal for a female to have an orgasm with every intercourse? 5. Would you date a girl who does not have an orgasm or who does not have it with every intercourse? 6. How it is important to you that a woman has an orgasm with you? Do you feel that it is your fault that she does not have an orgasm? Do you think it is because you are bad at sex or she is not attracted to you? 7. Do you expect your woman to have an orgasm during oral or vaginal sex? Do you expect her to have an orgasm with or without clitorial stimulation? I can tell when she falls asleep in a wet spot of her own creation.. Link to post Share on other sites
Jaytb Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 It will sound like she's in pain. She might even punch you. so true. Link to post Share on other sites
DanielMadr Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 so true. Well, punch back. Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Well, punch back. Yeah, it's only fair! :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Jaytb Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Well, punch back. hmm. my hands might be too busy to punch back *wink wink* So I guess I'll have to head butt instead Link to post Share on other sites
gopher Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm? 1. Do you just ask her if she had it? Then, if she said 'yes', you would be satisfied. Do you look for some special physical signs such as her loud sounds or her special body movements or her words 'I am coming' or smth else? 2. How do you know that your partner had multiple orgasms? What are signs of it? Can you describe it? How common it is in your experience? 3. How does a woman behave just after she had an orgasm? 4. Do you think that it is normal for a female to have an orgasm with every intercourse? 5. Would you date a girl who does not have an orgasm or who does not have it with every intercourse? 6. How it is important to you that a woman has an orgasm with you? Do you feel that it is your fault that she does not have an orgasm? Do you think it is because you are bad at sex or she is not attracted to you? 7. Do you expect your woman to have an orgasm during oral or vaginal sex? Do you expect her to have an orgasm with or without clitorial stimulation? Simply put, I can taste it.... Link to post Share on other sites
A O Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 BUT for a large percentage of women who have never and WILL NEVER orgasm with penetration.. then maybe... just maybe, for the sake of their own 'happiness' and 'sanity' it is better to make the H believes that they cum that way. Best to simply communicate, talk, be upfront about one's concerns, foibles and so forth. Quite often, honest communication brings a couple closer together while eliminating any misunderstandings at the same time. . Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Best to simply communicate, talk, be upfront about one's concerns, foibles and so forth. Quite often, honest communication brings a couple closer together while eliminating any misunderstandings at the same time. . In an ideal world.. I agree.. but lots of men do feel threaten in their sexuality if their partner do not reach orgasm through penetration... not ALL men are 'mature' enough to have an open communication and ACCEPT the fact that their W will NEVER reach orgasm that way... and sometimes arguments happen.. they can't believe their W... and imagine she's just making this up to avoid sex.. Link to post Share on other sites
hopesndreams Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 In an ideal world.. I agree.. but lots of men do feel threaten in their sexuality if their partner do not reach orgasm through penetration... not ALL men are 'mature' enough to have an open communication and ACCEPT the fact that their W will NEVER reach orgasm that way... and sometimes arguments happen.. they can't believe their W... and imagine she's just making this up to avoid sex.. Then tough noogies. Better to have a few arguments instead of outright lying. The truth always comes out eventually, whether in plain old conversation or a fight, "Oh btw dh, I have been FAKING the big O for years to spare your feelings!" Ouch. Link to post Share on other sites
A O Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 In an ideal world.. I agree. Healthy communication is very much the ideal world and an easily attained ideal world at that. but lots of men do feel threaten in their sexuality if their partner do not reach orgasm through penetration.For the most part, they'll only feel threatened if one uses it against them, that's both men and women here. Its all about understanding, which is but one component of communication. not ALL men are 'mature' enough to have an open communication and ACCEPT the fact that their W will NEVER reach orgasm that way Arguably, the flip side of this is that not all women are 'strong' enough to broach the subject. More to the point though, how one broaches the subject, conveys their message is as important as what you say. ... and sometimes arguments happen.. they can't believe their W... and imagine she's just making this up to avoid sex.. Not if you'd mentioned this from the get go. In this circumstance, the enjoyment of sex will be the primary focus, not the end goal. . Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted November 10, 2009 Share Posted November 10, 2009 Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm? The buzzing noise stops. Link to post Share on other sites
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