bac Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 (edited) Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm? 1. Do you just ask her if she had it? Then, if she said 'yes', you would be satisfied. Do you look for some special physical signs such as her loud sounds or her special body movements or her words 'I am coming' or smth else? 2. How do you know that your partner had multiple orgasms? What are signs of it? Can you describe it? How common it is in your experience? 3. How does a woman behave just after she had an orgasm? 4. Do you think that it is normal for a female to have an orgasm with every intercourse? 5. Would you date a girl who does not have an orgasm or who does not have it with every intercourse? 6. How it is important to you that a woman has an orgasm with you? Do you feel that it is your fault that she does not have an orgasm? Do you think it is because you are bad at sex or she is not attracted to you? 7. Do you expect your woman to have an orgasm during oral or vaginal sex? Do you expect her to have an orgasm with or without clitorial stimulation? Edited November 9, 2009 by bac
jw90063 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm? 1. Do you just ask her if she had it? Then, if she said 'yes', you would be satisfied. Do you look for some special physical signs such as her loud sounds or her special body movements or her words 'I am coming' or smth else? 2. How do you know that your partner had multiple orgasms? What are signs of it? Can you describe it? How common it is in your experience? 3. How does a woman behave just after she had an orgasm? 4. Do you think that it is normal for a female to have an orgasm with every intercourse? 5. Would you date a girl who does not have an orgasm or who does not have it with every intercourse? 6. How it is important to you that a woman has an orgasm with you? Do you feel that it is your fault that she does not have an orgasm? Do you think it is because you are bad at sex or she is not attracted to you? 7. Do you expect your woman to have an orgasm during oral or vaginal sex? Do you expect her to have an orgasm with or without clitorial stimulation? Let me guess, you have problems reaching orgasm? A guy should know if the woman orgasms. Things should tighten up inside(right before), and it gets extra wet.
BG1985 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 If she's a squirter, it's pretty easy to tell. One of my friends got blasted pretty badly on Halloween by a random.
A O Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm? 1. Do you just ask her if she had it? Initially I was gonna laugh at this but then I remembered that I had a girlie not to long ago who was as silent as a lamb. Yuk. Then, if she said 'yes', you would be satisfied. I think that people do want to know that they're doing it right at least. Do you look for some special physical signs such as her loud sounds or her special body movements or her words 'I am coming' or smth else? Yep, yep, yep. How do you know that your partner had multiple orgasms? Because those aforementioned signs start happening all over again (assuming the guy carries on of course). They're not as obvious nor intense IME, but the signs are the same nonetheless. How does a woman behave just after she had an orgasm? Crikey, not something I tend to notice Do you think that it is normal for a female to have an orgasm with every intercourse? I think that its a better than reasonable expectation Would you date a girl who does not have an orgasm or who does not have it with every intercourse? If she appears to be enjoying it, then that's all that matters. How it is important to you that a woman has an orgasm with you? Important, but again, is she enjoying it, that's really what matters. Do you feel that it is your fault that she does not have an orgasm? Do you think it is because you are bad at sex or she is not attracted to you?No and no. Its all about communication. If you suck at that, well... .
Vertex Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 (edited) 1. I don't ask, but it's flattering if they tell me they just came really hard or something, haha. 2. They come back for seconds. The signs of it? Doing what we did last night. Describe it? Naked. How common? For me, infrequent, as I am single D: C'est la vie. 3. Usually they're saying something like "Aahh, aaahh, aaauunnngghh! ... mmmm." 4. Normal? For some. For others, a lazy Tuesday. For others, a godsend. 5. Sure -- not all sex is strictly intercourse. Everyone's got their groove. 6. "Fault" is missing the point. The woman might just not be in the right mood for it. The guy might be doing something wrong. The position might not be optimal. Either way, the end goal does not always have to be orgasm -- don't ignore the journey, either Although, good journeys tend to end well anyway, soooo. 7. I expect her to orgasm at the sound of my sultry voice. There merest whisper of "I can't find my car keys" should send her convulsing into spasms of ecstasy. Nah, I just hope she has fun. If not, I'd like to know what works for her. Edited November 9, 2009 by Vertex
alphamale Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm?? oh trust me, you'll know
DanielMadr Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Do you know when a girl really screams? 1. Bed her in her apartement and not yours. 2. When you two are done dont ask how was it. 3. Stand up, go to a window and wipe your tool in a curtain. Then she really screams like mad.
Lizzie60 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Men who say that they know for sure.. (without a doubt) if their partner orgasm or not.. have no clue.. really... she can fake it...and he will never ever know it.. a good faker.. is as good as a good 'orgasmer'..
laRubiaBonita Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 can't guys feel it when a wonam orgasms?
DanielMadr Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Men, how do you know that your partner had an orgasm? 1. Do you just ask her if she had it? Then, if she said 'yes', you would be satisfied. Do you look for some special physical signs such as her loud sounds or her special body movements or her words 'I am coming' or smth else? 2. How do you know that your partner had multiple orgasms? What are signs of it? Can you describe it? How common it is in your experience? 3. How does a woman behave just after she had an orgasm? 4. Do you think that it is normal for a female to have an orgasm with every intercourse? 5. Would you date a girl who does not have an orgasm or who does not have it with every intercourse? 6. How it is important to you that a woman has an orgasm with you? Do you feel that it is your fault that she does not have an orgasm? Do you think it is because you are bad at sex or she is not attracted to you? 7. Do you expect your woman to have an orgasm during oral or vaginal sex? Do you expect her to have an orgasm with or without clitorial stimulation? Women cant have orgasm. It is scientific fact. They are more then happy to provide you with one....it makes them feel good.
Lizzie60 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 can't guys feel it when a wonam orgasms? not all the time.. same with men.. sometimes it's hard to tell.. in the heat of the moment if he came or not.. same with women..
laRubiaBonita Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 not all the time.. same with men.. sometimes it's hard to tell.. in the heat of the moment if he came or not.. same with women.. i guess... and with oral- it maybe hard to tell.... plus keagels could fake a guy out
jw90063 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 not all the time.. same with men.. sometimes it's hard to tell.. in the heat of the moment if he came or not.. same with women.. What the? This is what I don't get. My last BF did not know when I did or not sometimes. He said I would become more wet. The one before that said yes, "I", and girls in general get way tighter right before. That makes more sense. I don't get how all women do not get really tight before orgasm, and how can a man not feel this?
JL911 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 I know cause my girl likes to hump my face when it happens......lol
Lizzie60 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 i guess... and with oral- it maybe hard to tell.... plus keagels could fake a guy out hahaha.. I meant, with penetration.. I agree.. if the guy ejaculated from oral.. it's pretty easy to tell.. yep keigels would fool any man...
Sam Spade Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Aww, I try not to think about it (well I think about it, but it's one big mistery). With my current gf, it is hard to tell (shy and reserved asian ). Usually I go by the hartbeat - when it raises, then drops to a slower but thunderous pounding, it's usually an indication, though certainly not a reliable one. Also, occasionally there is squirting involved. In any case, I am positive that she does not orgasm every time (but says she enjoys it nevertheless ?) On the contrary, my ex was just like a man - she'd typically easily get off way before me, and then drop dead, so it was quite easy to tell, vocal or not. Wait, are you looking for instructions on faking???
Boundary Problem Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Women cant have orgasm. It is scientific fact. They are more then happy to provide you with one....it makes them feel good. Do you honestly believe that women cannot orgasm? The issue of causing a man to orgasm - well short answer - yes it feels good to cause that. I could give a REALLY long answer, but I won't.
boldjack Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 1) know your woman 2) if you don't know your woman, refer to rule #1. Any man can tell, if he is intimately familiar with the woman he is having sex with. What Lizzie says is true, but only up to a point. If a woman fakes it all of the time, then she is dooming her self, to never being satisfied. Think about it>
New Again Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Not everyone gets this, but another way to tell is "sex flush" - happens to men and women, when your neck, chest and sometimes stomach get flushed. Like a body blush.
alphamale Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 can't guys feel it when a wonam orgasms? it depends on the woman
stepka Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 I can't speak for all women of course, but I'm pretty reliable at having an orgasm every time, but I'm much less likely to have one with a new partner--or at least it won't happen as quickly. Since I won't fake it, that can make for some tense moments. I think I've heard that it's true of most women, so if this is a new relationship, she may very well be faking it. I know some women who claim never to have an orgasm with intercourse, only with oral. They still claim that they enjoy intercourse, but the high point is then the initial, er, penetration. Which is a very high point--I think men don't enjoy that part as much as women do, but I could be wrong. Also, I'll trot out the studies: scientists claim that they've studied thousands of couples (don't ask me how) to find out if men know when women are faking, and men were wrong almost 100% of the time! So men, here's a rule of thumb: If she says she had an orgasm, she did. End of story.
sumdude Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Women can fake it and usually it's hard to tell for sure.. except those times when she's still quivering uncontrollably for a few minutes after we've finished.
alphamale Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Women can fake it and usually it's hard to tell for sure.. except those times when she's still quivering uncontrollably for a few minutes after we've finished. there are women that fake it, there are women that have one but keep it hidden and there are women that let loose...and everything in between. and then there are women that are totally non-orgasmic
DanielMadr Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Do you honestly believe that women cannot orgasm? The issue of causing a man to orgasm - well short answer - yes it feels good to cause that. I could give a REALLY long answer, but I won't. Do you honestly believe that I do believe? I once heard but its probably a hoax that woman can have orgasm when she orally pleasures her man and doesnt stop for two minutes after he had his orgasm. Girls maybe it is worth a try.
jw90063 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Not everyone gets this, but another way to tell is "sex flush" - happens to men and women, when your neck, chest and sometimes stomach get flushed. Like a body blush. That is what I was thinking too. My face will flush right before.
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