IrishCarBomb Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 Truthful as possible: Trolls: RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE!!!
meerkat stew Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 So by that one post... I fall somewhere in the middle? If you are under 30, the 3+ times a week going out is cool, forgot to mention that my scale comes from dating 30-45 y.o. women. A 40+ woman who must go out 3+ times a week is definitely drama, a 26 y.o.? not so much. Also, the SATC thing was mostly tongue in cheek and my scale is of course not scientific in the least.
meerkat stew Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 Maybe you have different experiences than me, Once more, my scale comes from experience dating 30-45 yo women, and I stand by my claim that hyper-texting by a 30+ yo is evidence of drama. This applies to men too, you know the ones who sit around with a bluetooth poked in their ear to give the impression they are always working some big important deal? ... drama.
norajane Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 It also shows that when guys like betamanlet say that "women don't like nice guys", what he really means is "the hot young women that I want to bone, don't like nice guys". So like I've told him before, there are women out there who he can get, he just doesn't want them because they aren't the young hotties he's pining for. Actually, what he means are the kind of women he wants, don't like him. It has nothing to do with "nice guys". We have not established that he is "nice" - he's actually quite bitter, pessimistic, and quick to label women as having low self-esteem and I can't believe that doesn't come out in his interactions with women. The only thing that bores me is a man with whom I can't have interesting conversations. If I have no complaints about a guy, he's totally welcome in my life.
MyNameIsJonas Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 Once more, my scale comes from experience dating 30-45 yo women, and I stand by my claim that hyper-texting by a 30+ yo is evidence of drama. This applies to men too, you know the ones who sit around with a bluetooth poked in their ear to give the impression they are always working some big important deal? ... drama. Fair enough. We each deal with different age brackets in women and thus have different perspectives. I was speaking of the early to mid 20s bracket.
bayouboi Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 Actually, what he means are the kind of women he wants, don't like him. It has nothing to do with "nice guys". We have not established that he is "nice" - he's actually quite bitter, pessimistic, and quick to label women as having low self-esteem and I can't believe that doesn't come out in his interactions with women. The only thing that bores me is a man with whom I can't have interesting conversations. If I have no complaints about a guy, he's totally welcome in my life. Yes, this is what I meant. Thanks.
Author betamanlet Posted December 29, 2009 Author Posted December 29, 2009 I don't like these nice guy threads, but I did want to point out something that I noticed in this thread. There were a couple posts above that basically read "I've outgrown the need for drama" which implies that when they were younger (and likely more physically attractive) they were attracted to the guys that brought the drama. Now that they are older (and likely less physically attractive relative to their younger selves and other young women), they've "outgrown the need for drama" which basically reads to me that they don't have that option anymore. It also shows that when guys like betamanlet say that "women don't like nice guys", what he really means is "the hot young women that I want to bone, don't like nice guys". So like I've told him before, there are women out there who he can get, he just doesn't want them because they aren't the young hotties he's pining for. I don't like "hotties". I like nerdy looking chicks who wear glasses..
Peitho Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I read some of your other threads and I can say, you have nothing to worry about – you provide enough drama. Also, I like you. (Of course, it's only because I have low self esteem and I like your drama. ) But.. thinking that all women are some sort of low self esteem creatures unable to see real human qualities – not nice! You consider yourself to be a nice guy. What qualities in a man do you consider to be nice?
Buckeye Candy Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I've been with my lady for quite some time and the only complaint she has is that I snore. You need to find someone who is compatible with your personality. If you have a very bland personality you are not going to satisfy someone with a colorful personality. You may want a lively, engaging, intelligent, attractive and charming woman but that doesn't mean she is suitable for you or that you deserve her.
PJKino Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 I've been with my lady for quite some time and the only complaint she has is that I snore. You need to find someone who is compatible with your personality. If you have a very bland personality you are not going to satisfy someone with a colorful personality. You may want a lively, engaging, intelligent, attractive and charming woman but that doesn't mean she is suitable for you or that you deserve her. Opposites attract allot of times..My friends who are laid back queit types found outgoing women who complented them and approached them Two shy quiet people would praobly never approach each other..
Buckeye Candy Posted December 29, 2009 Posted December 29, 2009 (edited) Opposites attract allot of times..My friends who are laid back queit types found outgoing women who complented them and approached them Two shy quiet people would praobly never approach each other.. I did not mean shy vs outgoing but rather bland vs colorful. A shy person may have a wonderful personality, many interests and is great to converse with one on one and an outgoing person may be loud and talkative but also dumb as paint and painful to listen to. A bland person will never keep a colorful person interested regardless of how shy or outgoing either of them are. Edited December 29, 2009 by Buckeye Candy
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