TalkTonight Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Hey everyone, ill try and keep the story short but basically i was with my ex for 8 years and they i finished her as i felt she didnt care enough about me and made me paranoid beyond belief!! 2 years on we still speak and see each other and have agreed to get back together on 2 occasions neither of them were followed through for different reasons. I split from my most recent g/f and when my ex of 8 years found out she wanted to talk about us being together again begging me to see her which i did. I thought we were certain to be together again and yet last week she has changed her mind saying she is scared and confused!! I do understand that she is but she has knocked me right back down the mountain and now i so cut up that shes led me on again i dont know what to do with myself. She said she was going to finish with her b/f but hasnt. I last spoke to her on sat and hav decided to go no contact but its so tough!! I really want to try again with her!! Im so lost anyone got anygud ideas for me to not talk to her???
AliveAndKicking Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 It soundslike she simply uses you to make herself feel better and that she does not care what effect it has on you. After so many years she ought to damn well know whether she wants to be with you or not. Don't allow her to use you and abuse you emotionally as that is exactly what she has been doing. She assumes you will always be there for her to use as needed. Stop it right now. Don't put your life on hold for someone who can't/won't make up their mind. You deserve better and you will not get it from her. Drop her like a bad habit, don't talk to her any more, and move on. You deserve a good woman who will NOT play games with you. Move on and do not look back!
hellopack Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 This may sound harsh but I think she is using you and is being really unfair. From what I can see, it would appear she is very insecure and sees you as a person to offer her stablility, so she uses you, build up your hopes and them dumps you when she thinks she is better off without you. My advice would be to go NC and focus on yourself.
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