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How sad is it that i feel as if i NEVER want to open my heart to anyone?


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After seeing all of these terrible things between men and women. Cheating and pain. How messed up is it that i am 20, never been in a real relationship, and i never want to open my heart up to anyone for fear of it being broken? I know you have to takes risks to move on in life and i do...just not in my love life. It's sad that i am thinking like this :(

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I know what you mean man... Some days I just don't know.

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I'll let you in on a little secret. Even though I have been heartbroken and destroyed when my ex broke up with me, I would do it all again in a heartbeat. The scars and pain that comes from a relationship ending is also how you learn to avoid them and pick out better partners in the future. You can have the scars, just don't let them put a chip on your shoulder. For all the horrible pain and breakups there are good times that I remember and hold on to. It doesn't make me pine for them or anything, just fond memories of times when our paths were intertwined for a while.

 

And after a while the dating game, and yes it is a game, can be kind of fun to play. Not every relationship ends up in pain and anguish. Sometimes they just don't work out.

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